Proactiff
@proactiff.bsky.social
GenX | HBCU ❤️💛🐯🐾 alumna | wife | mama | open nester | memoir junkie Florida grown | Georgia planted.
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Proactiff
@proactiff.bsky.social
· Nov 17
Teach your children early what you learned late.
Angie Stone’s death was a testament of “if it’s your time it’s your time” of the nine people present in the sprinter van she was the only one that didn’t survive. 🥺
March 3, 2025 at 2:48 PM
Angie Stone’s death was a testament of “if it’s your time it’s your time” of the nine people present in the sprinter van she was the only one that didn’t survive. 🥺
I want to explore this idea w/ my therapist: that is I’ve always felt motion defined me majority of my life’s circumstances. Yet, I’ve craved roots and stillness and sometimes belonging too. We bought a new construction home last year. I don’t feel like it’s our forever home and I’m okay with that.🧐
March 3, 2025 at 10:04 AM
I want to explore this idea w/ my therapist: that is I’ve always felt motion defined me majority of my life’s circumstances. Yet, I’ve craved roots and stillness and sometimes belonging too. We bought a new construction home last year. I don’t feel like it’s our forever home and I’m okay with that.🧐
I’ve been watching Accuweather for a few weeks in preparation for an upcoming trip to Cali. Now that’s it’s here I’m watching my weather app. Guess what song is currently playing over in my head? Hint: Tony! Toni! Tonè! Lied.
a man in a tuxedo is holding a woman 's head and says `` the lies ! the lies ! '' .
ALT: a man in a tuxedo is holding a woman 's head and says `` the lies ! the lies ! '' .
media.tenor.com
March 3, 2025 at 9:42 AM
I’ve been watching Accuweather for a few weeks in preparation for an upcoming trip to Cali. Now that’s it’s here I’m watching my weather app. Guess what song is currently playing over in my head? Hint: Tony! Toni! Tonè! Lied.
My degree in political science didn’t prepare me for this type of oligarchy. 🥴
March 3, 2025 at 9:37 AM
My degree in political science didn’t prepare me for this type of oligarchy. 🥴
GenX slowly, but surely approaching retirement. Tuh! Not on this administration and economic watch. Rent too damn high. Eggs cost too much. 😩
a woman in an orange shirt is sitting at a table with a glass of water and a watch .
Alt: Iyanla Vanzant on an episode of Iyanla, Fix My Life scolding a cast member seeking help
media.tenor.com
March 3, 2025 at 9:35 AM
GenX slowly, but surely approaching retirement. Tuh! Not on this administration and economic watch. Rent too damn high. Eggs cost too much. 😩
From avatar me to banner me I still have the same smile! I can’t forget same teeth—my mom offered up “I wish I could afford braces for you, but I can’t.” Fortunately I was comfortable with the gap I was born and blessed with! Still serving healthy teeth and gums 50+ years later.
March 3, 2025 at 9:27 AM
From avatar me to banner me I still have the same smile! I can’t forget same teeth—my mom offered up “I wish I could afford braces for you, but I can’t.” Fortunately I was comfortable with the gap I was born and blessed with! Still serving healthy teeth and gums 50+ years later.
Marco “Po-low” testosterone. Got it. 🙃
Marco Rubio can be best be described as a limp dick.
March 3, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Marco “Po-low” testosterone. Got it. 🙃
When I grow a new set, I want them to include the audacity of Dani when it comes to the Bills of this world. 😭 #BeyondtheGates
March 2, 2025 at 8:41 PM
When I grow a new set, I want them to include the audacity of Dani when it comes to the Bills of this world. 😭 #BeyondtheGates
Dear Ugg,
Y’all are deadass wrong for creating a waterproof clog with an “UGGplush™ sockliner” insert that can’t simply be replaced with an option to repurchase just that. The shoe is still intact. It’s the liner I want new again. Fix it like Jesus can.
Hostile regards,
Moi
Y’all are deadass wrong for creating a waterproof clog with an “UGGplush™ sockliner” insert that can’t simply be replaced with an option to repurchase just that. The shoe is still intact. It’s the liner I want new again. Fix it like Jesus can.
Hostile regards,
Moi
March 2, 2025 at 11:17 AM
Dear Ugg,
Y’all are deadass wrong for creating a waterproof clog with an “UGGplush™ sockliner” insert that can’t simply be replaced with an option to repurchase just that. The shoe is still intact. It’s the liner I want new again. Fix it like Jesus can.
Hostile regards,
Moi
Y’all are deadass wrong for creating a waterproof clog with an “UGGplush™ sockliner” insert that can’t simply be replaced with an option to repurchase just that. The shoe is still intact. It’s the liner I want new again. Fix it like Jesus can.
Hostile regards,
Moi
The airport is one place where observations of weather-confusion-wear is totally acceptable. We come from all over the world and can only prepare via packing, but throw caution to the wind by what we travel in.
March 2, 2025 at 11:00 AM
The airport is one place where observations of weather-confusion-wear is totally acceptable. We come from all over the world and can only prepare via packing, but throw caution to the wind by what we travel in.
Up and it’s stuck. 🤣
😂 Good morning….and I’m still up 🙄
March 2, 2025 at 10:43 AM
Up and it’s stuck. 🤣
“A good day starts with play.” #sixwordstory
March 2, 2025 at 10:42 AM
“A good day starts with play.” #sixwordstory
And we must forgive ourselves, too. #sixwordstory
March 2, 2025 at 10:17 AM
And we must forgive ourselves, too. #sixwordstory
Haven’t been excited about tuning into a soap opera since my college days (a continuation from my grade school and high school years). But I’m enjoying #BeyondtheGates this far!
February 27, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Haven’t been excited about tuning into a soap opera since my college days (a continuation from my grade school and high school years). But I’m enjoying #BeyondtheGates this far!
Our brain works better by telling it “what to do” rather than “what not to do.”
February 27, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Our brain works better by telling it “what to do” rather than “what not to do.”
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This book shouldn't be banned 😂
February 26, 2025 at 4:21 PM
This book shouldn't be banned 😂
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Some sound advice:
February 26, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Some sound advice:
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Jill Scott always get shafted with her film husbands: Why Did I Get Married and First Wives Club.
February 1, 2025 at 9:10 PM
Jill Scott always get shafted with her film husbands: Why Did I Get Married and First Wives Club.
Wordle 1,313 3/6
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⬛🟨🟩⬛⬛
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Late to the game, but obsessed no less.
⬛⬛🟩⬛⬛
⬛🟨🟩⬛⬛
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩
Late to the game, but obsessed no less.
January 22, 2025 at 12:50 PM
Wordle 1,313 3/6
⬛⬛🟩⬛⬛
⬛🟨🟩⬛⬛
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩
Late to the game, but obsessed no less.
⬛⬛🟩⬛⬛
⬛🟨🟩⬛⬛
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩
Late to the game, but obsessed no less.
My grandma sent this in the extended family group chat. My plan was to been pay FOTUS (Felon Of The United States) dust!
January 19, 2025 at 8:40 PM
My grandma sent this in the extended family group chat. My plan was to been pay FOTUS (Felon Of The United States) dust!
I’ve officially reached the stage in midlife—being entertained by word puzzles via my paid for news subscription. Also who has time to be entrenched in an article only to “have reached your limit of free reading?” Pay for the services you enjoy. Support is a verb.
January 19, 2025 at 10:44 AM
I’ve officially reached the stage in midlife—being entertained by word puzzles via my paid for news subscription. Also who has time to be entrenched in an article only to “have reached your limit of free reading?” Pay for the services you enjoy. Support is a verb.
Wordle 1,310 2/6
⬛🟨🟨⬛🟨
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 All those years holding on to one “fill in” puzzle book has paid off. This is post menopause brain gameplay.
Me to me: *Viola’s voice* You is smart. You is kind. You is important.
⬛🟨🟨⬛🟨
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 All those years holding on to one “fill in” puzzle book has paid off. This is post menopause brain gameplay.
Me to me: *Viola’s voice* You is smart. You is kind. You is important.
January 19, 2025 at 10:07 AM
Wordle 1,310 2/6
⬛🟨🟨⬛🟨
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 All those years holding on to one “fill in” puzzle book has paid off. This is post menopause brain gameplay.
Me to me: *Viola’s voice* You is smart. You is kind. You is important.
⬛🟨🟨⬛🟨
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 All those years holding on to one “fill in” puzzle book has paid off. This is post menopause brain gameplay.
Me to me: *Viola’s voice* You is smart. You is kind. You is important.
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I saw on threads the people are using FOTUS (F is for Felon) to refer to 47 and it works for me.
January 11, 2025 at 4:07 PM
I saw on threads the people are using FOTUS (F is for Felon) to refer to 47 and it works for me.