5. When in doubt, gift experiences or gift cards.

Gift cards let people choose what feels right for their body, identity, or style—and avoids misgendering through clothing sizes or presentation-related items. Experiences and especially time spent together is always a win!

but only when the person has expressed interest. These are deeply personal items, and giving them without invitation, even with good intentions, can create discomfort.

4. Avoid intimate gender affirming gifts unless invited.

For trans and nonbinary people, gifts like binders, tucking garments, packers, bras, makeup, etc. can be incredibly affirming—

3. Respect names, pronouns, and presentation.

If you’re giving anything personalized (like monogrammed items or art), make sure you’re using the person’s correct name and pronouns. This is a powerful form of affirmation in itself.

2. De-gender the gift options.

Focus on interests, aesthetics, hobbies, and needs rather than relying on labels like “men’s” or “women’s.”

1. Ask for ideas when you can.

Asking isn’t awkward; it is often the most affirming way to show respect and can help avoid assumptions.

Sincerely,
North Island Pride Society Board of Directors

cc:
Maryse Zeidler, CBC
Robin Grant, Campbell River Mirror
Raynee Novak, Comox Valley Record
Paul Galinski, Powell River Peak

We are also requesting an in-person meeting with you to discuss the experiences and needs of your 2SLGBTQI+ constituents in particular. Would you be available some time in the next two weeks? Please advise so we can schedule a meeting.

We are concerned about the pattern emerging in your voting record and wish to remind you that your job is to represent all of your constituents. That was your oath and we expect you to keep it. Going forward, we ask you to vote to strengthen and affirm the human rights of your constituents.

We were similarly dismayed by your abstention on Motion 38, which asked the House to condemn the intolerant views of the Association for Reformed Political Action (ARPA), a religious lobby group that explicitly seeks to restrict abortion access and 2SLGBTQI+ rights.

This is the latest in a series of recent votes and abstentions by you that are in conflict with 2SLGBTQI+ visibility and rights.