Me too!

Yes!!!

I think l saw this is a movie once. Now, how do we pin the Ken's against each other?

I believe most people aren't malicious. It is possible but usually not the case.

Relationships can be hard, especially when there is past trauma and triggers! I'm sorry you've been struggling friend!

I would also suggest giving your partner the benefit of the doubt.

"i feel gaslit" could potentially come off accusatory towards your partner. I would try, "l know we are on the same team, and it's important for us to be on the same page. Could we take some time to better understand one another?"

It's hard for any outsider to weigh in, especially when the perspective of the other individual is missing. Here is what l will say:

Your feelings are valid. If someone loves and cares about you - they will care enough about you to understand you.

You are the Bernie Sanders of Canada. Thank you for all your hard work.

The hypocrisy. One one person says they want a civil discussion but cowers away when their views get threatened.

Let me assure you - you trans son is hurt by you and your words.

I think you mean "the same", not equal. Equal insinuated one is better than the other. But you are using "biological" the same way as lm using "cis".

Both essentially assigned female at birth. You are free to say biological (though l think biologist would disagree here) and I'm free to use cis.

So this is your perspective - not fact. And it's your belief that chromosomes decide gender, yes?

I just want to be sure we are clear here.