Isn't it that all people, more-or-less, are viewed as objects, however minorly or strongly? It's hard to experience a Subject (as a Subject) without being that Subject yourself. We just be trying to figure each other out.

This is true in all cases besides academic writing

i've always felt the way you(?) drew Nonon was really cute

You putting it that way definitely makes me understand how it fits with the original post, oop

strange story