Mimi Starlight
@redpandachris.bsky.social
35m Red Panda babyfur dad. Demisexual, scared, sensitive, want people to stop assuming who i am and just try to get to know me without forcing their assumptions constantly.
Yo, just changed out of my last. And it was giraffe, but I always save the best for last.
December 1, 2025 at 8:08 AM
Yo, just changed out of my last. And it was giraffe, but I always save the best for last.
Still changing
December 1, 2025 at 12:28 AM
Still changing
They dont threaten me. They pull the victim and make me out like an abuser. Because after the 10th time saying no to something I start yelling.
December 1, 2025 at 12:21 AM
They dont threaten me. They pull the victim and make me out like an abuser. Because after the 10th time saying no to something I start yelling.
Look.. I just need a daddy to take care of me and my well... 'underwear'... hush...
December 1, 2025 at 12:10 AM
Look.. I just need a daddy to take care of me and my well... 'underwear'... hush...
Change you? I mean i guess I have to being the big one.
November 30, 2025 at 11:54 PM
Change you? I mean i guess I have to being the big one.
Like yes, they are equally traumatized. And it sucks, but do you respect their trauma or your own, where's the line of stepping out of your comfort to aid someone else before its being taken advantage of
November 30, 2025 at 11:51 PM
Like yes, they are equally traumatized. And it sucks, but do you respect their trauma or your own, where's the line of stepping out of your comfort to aid someone else before its being taken advantage of
Its not that youre even rejecting them either. You're rejecting the little voice in your head saying youre gonna get hurt.
November 30, 2025 at 11:48 PM
Its not that youre even rejecting them either. You're rejecting the little voice in your head saying youre gonna get hurt.
"...appreciative!" And its like i ask for them to respect me being alone in my room and to clean their own dishes. And they want to make me this 5 star desert(pastry chef) and I dont want that obligation to return to them.
November 30, 2025 at 11:45 PM
"...appreciative!" And its like i ask for them to respect me being alone in my room and to clean their own dishes. And they want to make me this 5 star desert(pastry chef) and I dont want that obligation to return to them.
It fucking sucks, and when you try to politely explain jts a trigger for you and they just get mad about it. Told my roomies bf that "i just asked for space and to clean up after yourselves" and got "you never appreciate all I do to make your life easier! Im scared of you because you cant be..."
November 30, 2025 at 11:45 PM
It fucking sucks, and when you try to politely explain jts a trigger for you and they just get mad about it. Told my roomies bf that "i just asked for space and to clean up after yourselves" and got "you never appreciate all I do to make your life easier! Im scared of you because you cant be..."
God I need this. Guess this is just yote mood lately for yotes lately. Been feeling all the similar moods you've had lol.
November 30, 2025 at 11:14 PM
God I need this. Guess this is just yote mood lately for yotes lately. Been feeling all the similar moods you've had lol.
I constantly do turns of phrases, which are metaphors and people get mad at me for using them. And its been an annoyance
November 30, 2025 at 10:16 PM
I constantly do turns of phrases, which are metaphors and people get mad at me for using them. And its been an annoyance
it's people's cooping mechanism. We need a tribe, so grouping together over trauma is a way people do it, but it's a tribe, and someone needs to be the chieftain, and how do you measure that? Well it's a shared thing, trauma, so let's quantify it. I don't agree with this mentality, but I know thewhy
November 30, 2025 at 8:37 PM
it's people's cooping mechanism. We need a tribe, so grouping together over trauma is a way people do it, but it's a tribe, and someone needs to be the chieftain, and how do you measure that? Well it's a shared thing, trauma, so let's quantify it. I don't agree with this mentality, but I know thewhy
Walmart is selling them for 25 bucks...
November 30, 2025 at 7:55 PM
Walmart is selling them for 25 bucks...
I collect ugly sweaters, and this year im forced to get a deer kigu for the collection.
November 30, 2025 at 7:54 PM
I collect ugly sweaters, and this year im forced to get a deer kigu for the collection.
Good god no, not because I love your art, im mad with mtg right now lol
November 30, 2025 at 7:52 PM
Good god no, not because I love your art, im mad with mtg right now lol
That rattata is in the top 10%
November 30, 2025 at 7:47 PM
That rattata is in the top 10%
And yes, I talk alot about shows, but im a media buff a la TV and movies. And the importance of their messages is significant. Sometimes, a lot of the times, a spade is a spade. But I feel a good creator knows the tropes and how to utilize them, plus the ending of you feels so justified.
November 30, 2025 at 7:37 PM
And yes, I talk alot about shows, but im a media buff a la TV and movies. And the importance of their messages is significant. Sometimes, a lot of the times, a spade is a spade. But I feel a good creator knows the tropes and how to utilize them, plus the ending of you feels so justified.
I mean yes, where YOU(the show) was the authors lived experience, the gaslighting stalking and rape wasn't just for that, and a narrative choice to show how stalkers and such do get away with what they are doing. Its so easy to say "how did they fall for it?" But the show YOU explains it
November 30, 2025 at 7:34 PM
I mean yes, where YOU(the show) was the authors lived experience, the gaslighting stalking and rape wasn't just for that, and a narrative choice to show how stalkers and such do get away with what they are doing. Its so easy to say "how did they fall for it?" But the show YOU explains it
And then last year I had an ex roomie who use to break everything and scream that hugging me was for my own good and unconditional, but there are still holes in the wall from when we didnt do what she said and had beaten people up for it. So yeah, being nice to me unconditionally
November 30, 2025 at 7:28 PM
And then last year I had an ex roomie who use to break everything and scream that hugging me was for my own good and unconditional, but there are still holes in the wall from when we didnt do what she said and had beaten people up for it. So yeah, being nice to me unconditionally
And yes, I know, doing stuff unconditionally should read to me as they just want my life easier. But my cousin use to lock me in a bedroom with 2 dogs and come barging in naked when I was 17 screaming about all he was doing for me and I needed to tuck him into bed drunk because he couldn't get laid.
November 30, 2025 at 7:25 PM
And yes, I know, doing stuff unconditionally should read to me as they just want my life easier. But my cousin use to lock me in a bedroom with 2 dogs and come barging in naked when I was 17 screaming about all he was doing for me and I needed to tuck him into bed drunk because he couldn't get laid.
Picturing little racc squatting behind the shed smoking a joint now...
November 30, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Picturing little racc squatting behind the shed smoking a joint now...