This is such brilliant insight from you as always! The best way I can describe my progression as a submissive is as a journey of eliminating ego. I believe this is why consistent humiliation has been so useful as a tool for training sincere submission.

🙇 stunning... you affect my ability to breathe

It's only been a couple of months, but I actually feel somewhat less compliant now. I'm not as inclined to slavishly lick boots all day, but now that lust is controlled, I'm much more sincere and serve out of love.

Your grace and generosity are like a radiant bloom upon the garden of the unworthy beneath you.

Chastity cages also get the job done 😅

Very true!

Agree 100% that total orgasm control by the domme is required. However, even with a chastity device some form of trust is required since it's possible to cheat/cum while in cage.

Start slow but be careful... things can escalate quickly! It's 6 weeks later and I'm wondering if I'll ever cum again!

Great discussion on maintaining discipline! Orgasm control is another effective method. It reinforces female authority while ensuring severe and potentially long-term consequences for any unacceptable behavior.

I've been on a long-term punishment since a couple of weeks before Locktober, so I missed out on the anticipation and pressure to follow the calendar. Oddly, this actually makes it easier to keep focused on chores and housework with no complaints!

Admittedly I did go through an embarrassing and annoying "simp" phase, but I'm so grateful to have eventually found a Dominant willing to correct my attitude and behavior.

Is he ever allowed to cum? I'm not always locked up, but orgasms are always limited and controlled to maintain obedience and good behavior.