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The Relaxed Male
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Mens coach out to help men out of the fear and anxiety that there is something wrong with themselves. I help men step into their masculinity and live their life according to their own terms.
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Anger isn’t caused by others—it’s created by the stories you tell yourself. Learn how to spot the real culprit and respond with strength, not reaction.
#relaxedmale #anger #mensissues

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The Real Reason You’re Angry (and The Solution to Fix It)
Anger isn’t caused by others—it’s created by the stories you tell yourself. Learn how to spot the real culprit and respond with strength, not reaction.
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October 1, 2025 at 2:53 PM
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The real mental illness mol.im/a/15119591
Suspect identified in deadly New Hampshire wedding shooting
The man shot and killed Robert Steven DeCesare, 59, with a 'handgun,' New Hampshire law enforcement said in a statement.
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September 21, 2025 at 5:52 PM
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Teacher are of no benefit. mol.im/a/15119541
Teachers association to allow celebration of Charlie Kirk's death
The Massachusetts Teachers Association said its members should not be punished for reacting positively to the late conservative's death as it would 'validate accusations by extremists'.
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September 21, 2025 at 5:49 PM
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The not so tolerant left
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The sinister truth about the violent, intolerant Left
The assassination of Charlie Kirk has ignited a cultural reckoning over political violence in America.
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September 21, 2025 at 5:47 PM
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Many times us men will struggle with finding the words to what we are needing.
#mansmind #betterrelationships #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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5 Traits That Fuel a Man’s Loyalty, Drive, and Love
Discover the five traits men need from their wives to stay connected, motivated, and loyal in marriage. These are fuel for lasting love, trust, and respect.
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August 6, 2025 at 4:42 PM
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So how would you handle your circumstances if you had a serious disruption that may disrupt your life for a week or more? How do you preper for something like that?
#prepping #level2prepping #preparedness #readywithoutfear

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Level 2 Prepping: How to Prepare for the Serious Disruptions.
Discover what Level 2 preparedness really means. Learn how to prepare for serious emergencies like natural disasters, job loss, and societal disruptions.
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August 6, 2025 at 2:55 AM
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There are different levels of preparation. Some folks hear this and allow for confusion to set in. What is the level one preparation? How do you start? We talk about it here. #leveloneprepping #level1prepping #prepping #preperation #readywithoutfear

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Laying a Preparedness Foundation Without Losing Your Mind
Forget the Hollywood image of prepping. Level One is about being ready for real-life emergencies with practical, everyday steps you can start today.
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August 1, 2025 at 7:12 AM
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July 30, 2025 at 9:41 PM
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Japan holds on to their traditions and culture with both hands. Is it far right to love who you are or is it far left to want to erase yourself?

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‘Japanese First’: The deep roots of the rising far right
Japan’s far-right Sanseito party won a record number of seats in the country’s recent upper-house elections, stripping the ruling party of its majority and cementing itself as an outspoken voice again...
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July 23, 2025 at 7:09 PM
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The Texas floods are still unfolding tragedy. Yes there were mistakes but there are also hard lessons to be learned from the events that unfolded on the night of July 4, 2025. #preparedness #readywithoutfear #prepping #lifelessons

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What the Guadalupe Flood Teaches Us About Real-World Prepping
A deadly Texas flash flood reveals the limits of preparedness. Learn what went wrong, what myths to ignore, and how to prep smarter for real-world disasters.
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July 16, 2025 at 6:37 PM
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Sadly too many men give up their power because they believe they have to. Then wonder why no one will follow them. #mansmind #manscommunity #personalpower #relaxedmale

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Why Men Give Away Their Power (And How to Get It Back)
Discover why men give away their personal power and learn 7 practical ways to reclaim your autonomy, stop playing victim, and take control of your life.
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July 16, 2025 at 12:46 PM
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When it comes to #prepping you will of ten find several advantages to being ready for those unexpected circumstances. #readywithoutfear

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10 Powerful Reasons That Will Benefit You to Start Prepping Today
Discover 9 compelling reasons to start prepping today. Learn how emergency preparedness builds confidence, creates community, and control over your life.
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July 9, 2025 at 2:24 PM
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If you want to be desirable to your wife or you want to show up more desirable to other people then you want to try this. #relationshipadvice #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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How to Be More desireable to Your Wife and Others.
Want to be the man everyone notices? Discover how to boost your value, mindset, and confidence with actionable steps from the 4 Pillars of a Relaxed Male.
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July 2, 2025 at 10:19 PM
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Stop letting fights ruin your relationships and start using them to grow. #manscommunity #conflictintimacy #coupleadvice #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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How to Stop Letting Fights With Your Wife Ruin Your Relationship
Tired of the same arguments? Learn how to stop letting fights with your wife destroy your connection and start building real communication and trust.
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June 28, 2025 at 2:17 AM
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For the young folks who are struggling with points the adults forgot to teach you.
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June 12, 2025 at 7:03 PM
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When relearning how to communicate with your wife one of the best tools is just the simple weekly check-in. That is if you are brave enough to hear what your wife has to say. #manscommunity #communication #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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Why Regular Check-Ins Are the Secret to a Strong Marriage
How can you have stronger communication with your wife? You check in with her and you talk it out. THe practice of talking is what will help your marriage.
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June 11, 2025 at 6:40 PM
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Why do people fail to prepare? #failingtoPrep #BasicPrepping #PreppingMindset #Level1Prepping

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10 Excuses People Use to Avoid Prepping, and Why They’re Wrong
People will have many different excuses after a disaster has struck, explaining why they were no prepared. These excuses don't excuse you from not being ready.
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June 9, 2025 at 9:19 PM
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How do you stay motivated when your wife doesn’t align with your vision? #manscommunity #manssoul #motivating #relaxedmale

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What to Do When Your Wife Doesn’t Support Your Vision
There are times when your vision of your purpose doesn’t align with your wife’s vision. How do you keep your momentum going?
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June 6, 2025 at 7:24 AM
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I still hear that men don’t share their emotions and I will continue to call BS on this claim. #mansmind #mansemotions #relaxedmale

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Are Men Truly Hiding Their Emotions?
for what ever reason the myth that men dont share emotions refuses to die and go away. Yet I see men expressing all sorts of emotinos and that no one else sees
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May 23, 2025 at 2:54 AM
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There is a lot of pressure to not quit. Yeah when it is good to go a head and call it quits on something you are doing? Maybe that favorite project has run its course. How do you know when to call it quits? #mansmind #manssoul #callingItQuits #quitting

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When Is It Right To GIve Up?
THere are times that we hit a hard wall. DO you keep banging against it or do you give up and find a softer place to dig?
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May 21, 2025 at 8:08 PM
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Escaping is kind of nice but it doesn’t allow you to grow. You stay in the circumstance you are trying to escape. #mansmind #growing #relaxedmale

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Why Escaping Life’s Hard Moments Keeps You Stuck in a Small Life
We often want to look for something better to do in our life than to face the unpeantness in our life. Yet if you want the relationship you have to work for it.
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May 8, 2025 at 11:12 PM
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People who put up walls often also complain that they can’t get close to people. Walls keep people from connecting and providing the relationships and fulfillment they crave. #manscommunity #relaxexmale #relationships #defenses

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Set Boundaries Not Walls
Why are people who set up walls to keep people out so unhappy? Why are they not content nor are they fulfilled in any way?
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April 30, 2025 at 5:14 PM
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We want to say we are trying by wishing something would happen. Then get frustrated when we find that we wasted a wish. How do you get your wish to come true? #mansmind #manssoul #relaxedmale #goals

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Stop Wasting Your Wishes
WIshing is easy and often very fun. It allows you mind to dream up big things. Yet are we wasting the energy of dreaming on something that wont help us?
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April 23, 2025 at 5:13 PM
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Many people journal religiously while other don’t at all. There are those folks who wonder what the advantage is. Well there are some powerful advantages that will help you become better. #mansmind #manssoul #Journaling #relaxedmale

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The Advantages of Journaling
Many people talk about journaling but what are some of the advantages of writing in a journal? What are some good arguments for writing?
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April 16, 2025 at 3:50 PM
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Hey @lirathevisionary.bsky.social thanks for the like and follow.
April 10, 2025 at 11:00 PM