We’ve lost something, no one will ever do it like “youngish athlete 2008-2012” again

there's also the classed assumptions. many of us have fit the horror stories: trafficked, survival work, fssw street, worked as minors, abused. will still never cede anything to these buzzards. they are dangerous.

acted within agreed contract and boundaries and mostly talked with you anyway. it's also often corralling us as ground zero for gendered abuse mascot, lest we be "pimp lobby" accomplices.

this, really. essentially saying we are unrapeable because everything is rape, that there is no meaningful delineation that isn't a product of self-delusion and false consciousness. so there is no reason to feel any different about the client that violently assaulted you vs the one that