retsuchi.bsky.social
@retsuchi.bsky.social
47m Snep. Logistic guy. Married. Living a calm life.
Good boy. Take the steps. Not just for you in the end, but for those you feel you've wronged.
December 16, 2025 at 9:44 PM
Now we idle talk from time to time but a weight lifted off me and I am sure them too.

So you got this. We all make mistakes. We all have bad streaks. It will be scary, but things will work out.
December 16, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Trust me when I say. I was scared to talk to an ex. Someone I hurt about a decade ago. Someone I thought hated my guts. It was hard to muster the strength. It went ok. I fumbled but was honest and I apologized. They listened and gave me a thank you. Then silence for a while. They reached out again.
December 16, 2025 at 9:32 PM
If they haven't. It means they are letting you reach out to them. If things were left unsaid or in an unfinished state. The initial conversation might be uncomfortable, but in the end things will smooth out I am sure.
You got this rottie.
Be a good dog and I know things will work out.
December 16, 2025 at 9:22 PM
Hey and you get yourself the closure to be able to move on. Easy way to see if you have even the option. Have they blocked you? On social or any messenger you used to chat on.

Being removed is different from being blocked, but yes give it a go. Things will go well I am sure.

You too! Enjoy.
December 16, 2025 at 9:10 PM
Lawl. Hey just a voice of reason. I been there. I have done things to people and it has weighed me down for years. I decided to take the step to talk to those and accept what I had done and how I left things.

I felt a lot better in the end. They also thanked me after a while too.
Be safe rottie.
December 16, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Understandable. But if you feel bad about how things ended. Wouldn't it be better for both sides to get some form of closure. It might be sour at first, but might be better to keep yourself from thinking back on something and feeling down.

Either way you decide.
December 16, 2025 at 8:51 PM
Well that maybe so, but you won't get a real answer if you don't reach out. Maybe they also could be waiting for a reply back or some kind of closure.

But I hope things go well and you have a great X-mas.
December 16, 2025 at 8:40 PM
Why can't you see them? If you don't mind me asking?
December 16, 2025 at 7:37 PM