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Rila
@rilaraven.bsky.social
🔞🏳️‍⚧️ (She/Her or Big Sis if you like💜)A Shadar-kai descendant of the Raven Queen. Writer, science literacy advocate, streaming on Twitch.

Mama: laapplepie.bsky.social
Logo: mikalogo
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Ya girl finally got a reference sheet. Thanks to my wonderful wives and @laapplepie.bsky.social who absolutely cooked.
Finished editing the first novel on Monday in a moment 6 years in the making. Now what do I do with it? Wait, I'm supposed to show it to people? What fucking heresy is this? But seriously I'll be looking at the best way to get it out in the world for the 3 people that might want it. #writers #novel
November 13, 2025 at 1:23 AM
The US Marine Corps' 250th birthday is Nov 10 so the Toys for Tots drive starts early in The Roost with a goal of $250. Care for yourselves 1st but, if you are able, some kids' holidays will be brighter this year if we meet our goal.

For my Marine siblings from Tun Tavern to the future, Semper Fi.
October 26, 2025 at 1:21 AM
I've achieved a few goals in my life but this is the only one I've doubled up on.
July 9, 2025 at 8:05 PM
I just realized the month is almost over and I didn't make a happy pride post so here goes nothin. Happy Pride peeps. Your existence is the best victory you could have. Instead of posting all the different flags, this is one i created that encapsulates my identities as a polyamorous trans lesbian.
June 29, 2025 at 6:25 PM
As the 4th of July gets closer in the US please check who you are using fireworks around. I used to get yard signs from the local VA warning the neighborhood that I dont do well with explosions but they dont give those out anymore around here. Please be aware your fun might just be someones hell.
June 22, 2025 at 2:11 AM
I find myself in an interesting intersection. I really want to be able to wear the clothes I want. But I also dont want to be that mom that seems to be trying to dress like her teenage daughter. Like my daughter doesnt have a "style" yet, she finds clothes boring, but I still have this inborn fear.
June 19, 2025 at 10:38 PM
Been out for a bit. Haven't felt stable but I am going to try streaming again this week. Also what have I missed? Happy Pride. Punch Nazis. Ask experts before having opinions. 6 x/y combinations, Punch Nazis, 3 sexes not guaranteed by x/y combos, infinite genders. Punch Nazis one more time. 💜
June 16, 2025 at 2:37 AM
I know I haven't been streaming regularly lately so sorry about that. These next 2 weeks will probably be more of the same as this is a really hard time of the year for me. I'll be around when I'm feeling stable enough to be social.💜
May 26, 2025 at 11:06 PM
I normally don't like receiving things from others but the lovely wives of mine have helped me improve, also the world is... yeah so every bit helps. If you want to show support without Twitch taking a cut there is now a Kofi for donations. Please take care of yourselves first. ko-fi.com/rilaraven
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May 1, 2025 at 1:52 AM
It's good to know that not only do i need my name change, and all id documents updated. Which will already cost 500-1000 usd to have a shot of getting back into the US after visiting wives but now I also need a burner cell too. 6 months from now I'll need a donkey and 5 dubloons on top of that.
April 8, 2025 at 8:12 PM
I learned NaNoWriMo is officially dead as they filed bankruptcy. While i wont give my opinion as I know the writing and vtuber communities operate in much the same way. I will say that I am sad to see it go as it did inspire many, including myself, to try something they didnt think they could do.
April 3, 2025 at 12:44 AM
Does everyone have thier high visibility jackets ready for Monday? I'm grabbing mine from storage tonight so I just wanted to make sure yall were ready too.
March 26, 2025 at 2:01 PM
A judge has ruled that trans servicemembers can continue to serve. Which is as it should be but a line really stood out to me "transgender persons can have the warrior ethos".
I would argue that we are warriors already. By the very nature of our existance in this world and these societies...
March 19, 2025 at 4:37 PM
The wives have informed me it is my Phoenix Day. While I don't normally celebrate things pertaining to me I also think it is important to recognize little victories at this point in history. So heres to one year of successful hrt.
March 18, 2025 at 8:15 PM
Ya girl finally got a reference sheet. Thanks to my wonderful wives and @laapplepie.bsky.social who absolutely cooked.
February 18, 2025 at 7:51 PM
At this point if you are ever questioned about the specifics of people around you and your response is anything other than "There is no *insert minority* in Ba Sing Se" you are part of the problem.
February 4, 2025 at 9:19 PM
Estrogen is wild with the emotional swings this week. Yesterday I was kinda a mopey mess for a while there and today I have a feral desire to use both my wives as experimental subjects to prove that I could, in fact, impregnate a transfem. And the entire time ive been craving cold cans of beefaroni.
February 4, 2025 at 3:46 PM
So... realized an... interesting factoid. It has been 2 weeks since the beginning of the gates of hell here in the US. It has also been 2 weeks since my boobs have started being sore regularly and growth was noticed. By this logic ya girl gonna have some h-cups by the end of this.
January 31, 2025 at 1:48 PM
Alright... who did it... I promise I wont bite🤣
January 26, 2025 at 7:37 PM
Sorry for the lack of streaming lately, have not been in a stable state as of late, but I'm feeling much better today and planning on streaming at some point this weekend.
January 24, 2025 at 5:01 AM
As of tomorrow the attacks officially begin. By executive order all federal agencies in the US will be required to only recognized birth sex and ignore gender as the slide into anti-science and fascism accelerates per the republican plan. If you can please make sure you have a support system...
January 20, 2025 at 2:01 PM
If you see this, post your flags. Here are my 3 and one that I put together that combines the 3 into one Polytransbian flag.
January 19, 2025 at 11:09 PM
9: Most underrated part of vtubing? The freedom. Not everyone needs that freedom for the same reason. Expressing the gender I identify with was huge. Others need that freedom for safety reasons, self confidence reasons, or just that they dont want to show fleshy face.
In an effort to actually put myself out there for once I'm going to shamelessly steal this from someone else's post. Forget where I found it though cause I accidentally refreshed the browser🥲
January 12, 2025 at 12:45 PM
Ive been going back and forth about streaming on adult platforms, not because I want to make lewder content (although it is a long term goal to have the confidence to do that) but only because I want to stream my TCG Card shop and im not allowed to do that on twitch.
January 11, 2025 at 2:51 AM
8: Want to stream but havent? A main goal was to be able to do some educational content. I did one stream but I didn't really like how it turned out so I stopped in the middle of making the 2nd one. I want to do one on polyamory next to help others understand and help with misinformation.
In an effort to actually put myself out there for once I'm going to shamelessly steal this from someone else's post. Forget where I found it though cause I accidentally refreshed the browser🥲
January 11, 2025 at 12:31 AM