Sounds like you assumed that you two were exclusive and he didn’t. You were dating. That’s pretty fucking vague. Maybe have talk about what each other are looking for before wasting time.

So me and the weight monster are old enemies. One of my favorite studies says that really only two things motivate people for weight loss. Money and sex. I think you can work with that. It works on me. Wife has me signed up for a 1/2 marathon and if I finish under 2:10. We are going to a club

Yeah, maybe with all the tea - it’s not a problem for you all. It could just be us coffee drinkers in the states. What I do know is the men’s at the office has to have the urinals snaked every 3-5 months because none of the guys flush. I know the plumber (my uncle). I recommend flushing.

Excellent - plumbers love the “if it’s yellow…” guys. The uric acid will crystallize and create clogs. Not certain what the costs will be. But for 3 - I’m guessing your plumber will be living it up on holiday.

Don’t know which is worse? Your shit pet name for your son (probably will end up going no contact with you in the future) or the affair.

Dude - so not the same situation but something similar happened to me. Shared with my wife and surprised to find out she’s got a touch of exhibitionist in her. Now all I have to do is whisper in her ear how she should flash guys when we out and about. It’s like viagra for her.

I suddenly want to eat Domino's and I'm not talking about the pizza.

Yeah probably fake, but if it’s real - we all know what the confession will be I say 20 years. My kids cut contact and I don’t know how or why. Speaking from experience.

I like my spouse, both of my girls but dislike my son-in-law. My younger daughter has a pretty decent fellow. But I have no real friends, hate my job, and my life. What the hell happened?