The bear community overall is white focused bc of origins in western cisgender gay male culture and not relating is totally valid bc of exclusion. That being said it’s possible to have Polynesian gay bears and my best friend sometimes jokingly embraces it (he’s Samoan and Tongan descent).

Likewise. It was a dream come true to visit and a treasured memory. My life is richer knowing you all and being able to visit felt special because I thought I would never be able to come. You were lovely hosts and if I ever get to return the favor it would be an honor.

I don’t blame you and your safety is more important, so this isn’t me saying you are wrong. With that being said, I imagine many Americans who don’t have the money like I did to go to Aotearoa or elsewhere would love to meet you. That’s the only part I would consider to come here.

He needs to stick to styling people and do nothing else. He ruins drag race and it’s giving Santino Rice and his no drag knowledge. 😅

Yes do you feel better? ❤️‍🩹

Feel better my friend! Sending you lots of good thoughts for a quick recovery.

True! August is ours! Hope yours was good too. :)

Im so happy you also had a nice birthday! I spent it at a drag brunch and then went to a nice museum in DC. It’s so nice to share a birthday with someone so wonderful. ☺️

Today’s agenda is that it’s my birthday. Lolol

Happy birthday my twin! So happy to share a birthday with you. :)

Happy birthday to us!

It’s because our birthday is tomorrow! Happy birthday to us!

It’s not fun. I check only if I end up there accidentally and remember it exists.