Because that's what humans do regardless of gender

You can have friends and community of both genders outside of romantic partner yes you can express who you are without apologizing for it and God forbid you are allowed to cry on your friend's shoulder

Guess what men have the same emotional capabilities as women maybe not in all areas but in most basic generalizations yes

That expressing your feelings is weak and beta having emotions is not what men are supposed to have this is all wrong and ass backwards

The very patriarchy that benefited men is now actually putting them down telling them they're not allowed to have emotions or relationships outside of a romantic partner or mentally capable and strong to thrive

Women have been put down far more but managed to gain the strength and adversity to fight through it they build relationships and Community outside of one romantic relationship they have a sense of community they express who they are they don't apologize for it

This is the BS the patriarchy teaches men the patriarchy is destroying men as much as it's destroying women but here's the difference

And that their life is to be revolved around a romantic partner for their own pleasure

That's because they're a huge part of electoral power and get involved in politics and organize they are a threat to the right Wing's power

Against this terrible corrupt patriarchal government so now the right wing is going to vilify them and use influencers online to attack white women they are now the new enemy of the right

Why you say because white women carry a lot of electoral power and influence they are finally joining the fight in solidarity with black brown and Indigenous women who've been in the fight forever