👍🏻, just don’t let me see it. Years ago, our new flatmate (A) brought tea to my other flatmate (F) & me, as he passed F, F’s face changed & he yelled “nooo” as A handed me tea with the bag in the milk, & I puked. I am better now. My best friend does what you do , I just try not to look!

My lukewarm take is : the teabag should always be out before the milk goes in. I won’t die on this hill, because I’ll be vomiting if I see a teabag in milk. (More of a phobia than a lukewarm take. )