I have more opinions on this that extend to online activism in general but I will put those aside until I make another opinionated just as useless post online

Why do several queer spaces dogpile and hate on the confused person who doesn't understand and is genuinely asking questions that don't come off right when there could be a little bit of patience that helps them learn? How does that build good allyship or community at all???

Like bro actually why are we talking about which queer people are acceptable and good when queer people literally don't have basic rights in a good majority of places.

Basically I saw a post advocating for people like me but in a gross way that discredits other experiences and needs and I couldn't respond to it so now im vague posting.

I don't want to medically transition. There is no form of medically transitioning that would make me feel correct in my body. That doesnt mean other trans people don't though.

Me when the character is put through a situation

"Well what if because I think i might have autism i act like I have autism and im actually somehow manipulating the person assessing me because I couldn't remember all the details correctly"

I used to argue online because it was entertaining and rage is an enjoyable emotion to have sometimes that has nothing to do with transness. People need to let trans people have hobbies geez 🙄

I think more people need to think about that regardless of if someone trying to get diagnosed has adhd they are likely just trying to find answers and support for something difficult and adhd is the best explanation they have.