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Secure, in Style
@secureinstyle.tech
· Jan 8
To all of my new followers, and to pretty much anyone who would like to know more about me, allow me to share some blog posts I’ve done. I hope you enjoy them and provides some insight as to who I am.
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What a great day for my cowlick to make a very prominent appearance in my #OOTD jump pose. Thankfully, the tool I use to blur the backgrounds conveniently blurred it out—but trust me, it's very much there. Can't believe I had been going all day that way. 🙈 See more: pixelfed.social/p/SecureInSt...
November 17, 2025 at 10:00 PM
What a great day for my cowlick to make a very prominent appearance in my #OOTD jump pose. Thankfully, the tool I use to blur the backgrounds conveniently blurred it out—but trust me, it's very much there. Can't believe I had been going all day that way. 🙈 See more: pixelfed.social/p/SecureInSt...
New stickers have just arrived, and I'm liking this design a bit more. It's smaller and the size is just right, and updated my blog with it as well.
November 16, 2025 at 7:34 PM
New stickers have just arrived, and I'm liking this design a bit more. It's smaller and the size is just right, and updated my blog with it as well.
This week's outfits are up, plus thoughts on "zero trust"—a security term that actually describes how we protect ourselves in everyday life, without even realizing it.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
Weekly Style Recap: November 10-14, 2025
Happy Sunday! How is your weekend treating you? Been pretty good here, and soaking up all of the relaxation I possibly can. ☺️ The past week was extremely busy dealing with a few emergencies, so I was very ready for the weekend to arrive. This coming week also is the last full week of work I have left for the year.
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November 16, 2025 at 4:57 PM
This week's outfits are up, plus thoughts on "zero trust"—a security term that actually describes how we protect ourselves in everyday life, without even realizing it.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
Barbara Bach is soooooo gorgeous in “The Spy Who Loved Me”
November 15, 2025 at 4:55 AM
Barbara Bach is soooooo gorgeous in “The Spy Who Loved Me”
Happy to report that some of my sweaters still fit after my "expansion", so very thankful for that! Argyle for today's #OOTD—perfect for autumn. 🍂
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November 14, 2025 at 10:34 PM
Happy to report that some of my sweaters still fit after my "expansion", so very thankful for that! Argyle for today's #OOTD—perfect for autumn. 🍂
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May need to slightly shift my outfit location, or be more mindful so as to not have light posts growing out of my head with my #OOTD pictures. Oops. 😅
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November 13, 2025 at 10:22 PM
May need to slightly shift my outfit location, or be more mindful so as to not have light posts growing out of my head with my #OOTD pictures. Oops. 😅
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Get to know your mutuals! List ten random things you like.
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
get to know your mutuals! List ten random things you like ೃ⁀➷
🐦 Birds! Esp parrots!
📚 READING
🎮 Vidya games
🎲 DND
✍️ Doodling! (Not very good at it )
🍜 Ramen (and sushi!)
🎐Wind chimes (sounds esp)
🕹️ Og Final Fantasy VII
👗 Fashion!!
📺 YouTube letsplayers
🐦 Birds! Esp parrots!
📚 READING
🎮 Vidya games
🎲 DND
✍️ Doodling! (Not very good at it )
🍜 Ramen (and sushi!)
🎐Wind chimes (sounds esp)
🕹️ Og Final Fantasy VII
👗 Fashion!!
📺 YouTube letsplayers
get to know your mutuals! list ten random things you like ೃ⁀➷
꩜ birds!! and most animals tbh
꩜ dragon, dark & fairy type pokemon
꩜ baked goods & baking
꩜ lilacs :)
꩜ scary movies
꩜ drawing & crafts
꩜ gardening
꩜ writing!!
꩜ collecting enamel pins
꩜ dragons 🐉
꩜ birds!! and most animals tbh
꩜ dragon, dark & fairy type pokemon
꩜ baked goods & baking
꩜ lilacs :)
꩜ scary movies
꩜ drawing & crafts
꩜ gardening
꩜ writing!!
꩜ collecting enamel pins
꩜ dragons 🐉
November 13, 2025 at 5:31 PM
Get to know your mutuals! List ten random things you like.
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
(Ten?? Oof.)
👗 Fashion/style
🔒 Cybersecurity for the non-technical
❤️ Empathy
🕵️♂️ Columbo
🎮 Casual video gaming
☕️ Frasier
🎶 Music
👠 Shoe design
⚫️⚪️ Polka dots
🐶 Dogs
Well, sunlight isn't quite as warm when it's below freezing outside in the morning. Warm and comfy coat accompanies today's #OOTD. Also, think I'm getting too old to take jump pose pics. Sigh.
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November 11, 2025 at 10:59 PM
Well, sunlight isn't quite as warm when it's below freezing outside in the morning. Warm and comfy coat accompanies today's #OOTD. Also, think I'm getting too old to take jump pose pics. Sigh.
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Nope, no surprises here…
November 11, 2025 at 7:41 PM
Nope, no surprises here…
Age yourself with gaming 🎮
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
November 11, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Age yourself with gaming 🎮
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
Yes, I actually LIKED this game. ☺️
I may move back to my (super) sunny position to take my #OOTD pictures, as the slivers of sunlight is wreaking havoc on editing, and washing things out a bit. Also, sunlight is WARM. ☀️
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November 10, 2025 at 10:32 PM
I may move back to my (super) sunny position to take my #OOTD pictures, as the slivers of sunlight is wreaking havoc on editing, and washing things out a bit. Also, sunlight is WARM. ☀️
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Just saw this posted on Tumblr. This really gave me pause.
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
November 10, 2025 at 3:55 PM
Just saw this posted on Tumblr. This really gave me pause.
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
"It's true that crying won't solve things but we don't cry to solve. We cry to release."
This week's outfits + a reflection on something that's been on my mind: the small details in our photos that can give away more than we realize. A gentle reminder to look at the whole frame.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
Weekly Style Recap: November 3-7, 2025
Hello, and happy Sunday, everyone! ☺️ How is your weekend treating you so far? It's been a very low-key weekend for me so far. I really need to re-motivate myself to continue on with my CISSP studies to try and tackle that certification. I think it would be quite beneficial to my career in the long run, even if I still don't quite know exactly…
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November 9, 2025 at 2:17 PM
This week's outfits + a reflection on something that's been on my mind: the small details in our photos that can give away more than we realize. A gentle reminder to look at the whole frame.
#VulnerablyMe
#VulnerablyMe
"I don't care what anyone says, I like that movie"
November 8, 2025 at 12:30 AM
"I don't care what anyone says, I like that movie"
Thankful the weather held out and didn't rain as was forecasted this morning, so that I could wear my red sneakers with today's #OOTD.
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November 7, 2025 at 10:24 PM
Thankful the weather held out and didn't rain as was forecasted this morning, so that I could wear my red sneakers with today's #OOTD.
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I’d forgotten how much I enjoy using the Happy Color app. The fashion ones are my faves, especially the shoe ones, obviously. ☺️
November 7, 2025 at 3:19 AM
I’d forgotten how much I enjoy using the Happy Color app. The fashion ones are my faves, especially the shoe ones, obviously. ☺️
Seems that I have to finagle where I stand and take my outfit pictures in the shade, as I'm still getting the slightest slivers of sunlight that wash out my #OOTD. Couldn't even lean against the rail like I normally do.
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November 6, 2025 at 10:16 PM
Seems that I have to finagle where I stand and take my outfit pictures in the shade, as I'm still getting the slightest slivers of sunlight that wash out my #OOTD. Couldn't even lean against the rail like I normally do.
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Playing around with a new sticker design, and making it available for purchase. I'm rather liking it.
November 5, 2025 at 6:44 PM
Playing around with a new sticker design, and making it available for purchase. I'm rather liking it.
Drop something YELLOW
November 4, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Drop something YELLOW
Today has been a... day. Lots of "excitement" today, none of it of the 'good' kind. Though I like how today's #OOTD turned out, I'm not keeping the shirt. It's a bit too large, and it's a shame because I love the color and texture.
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November 3, 2025 at 10:31 PM
Today has been a... day. Lots of "excitement" today, none of it of the 'good' kind. Though I like how today's #OOTD turned out, I'm not keeping the shirt. It's a bit too large, and it's a shame because I love the color and texture.
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Layers this week as temps drop. On the blog: why soft skills matter just as much as tech skills in cybersecurity—and why speaking human is often the most technical thing we can do.
#VulnerabillyMe
#VulnerabillyMe
Weekly Style Recap: October 27-31, 2025
Happy Sunday, everyone! I hope you all are having a great weekend, and for those of you who celebrate Halloween, I hope it was a great holiday for you. At the risk of ridicule and admonishment, I will confess that I'm not really all that into Halloween—I can certainly take it or leave it. More power to those who live for the day every year!
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November 2, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Layers this week as temps drop. On the blog: why soft skills matter just as much as tech skills in cybersecurity—and why speaking human is often the most technical thing we can do.
#VulnerabillyMe
#VulnerabillyMe
Today's unpopular opinion—I can take or leave Halloween. I was never really all that into it. 🙈 .. Moving on, I rather like switching the location slightly for today's #OOTD. I like not being in the full sunlight, and I rather like the backdrop as well.
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October 31, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Today's unpopular opinion—I can take or leave Halloween. I was never really all that into it. 🙈 .. Moving on, I rather like switching the location slightly for today's #OOTD. I like not being in the full sunlight, and I rather like the backdrop as well.
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Seems that Blurryface is trying to make a return in today's #OOTD action pictures. I'll need to try and dig into why it keeps happening. It doesn't appear to be a lack of light, so I'm a bit confused. 🤔 Oh, and swapped remote days for Thursday this week.
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October 29, 2025 at 9:50 PM
Seems that Blurryface is trying to make a return in today's #OOTD action pictures. I'll need to try and dig into why it keeps happening. It doesn't appear to be a lack of light, so I'm a bit confused. 🤔 Oh, and swapped remote days for Thursday this week.
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So many great action photos turned out with today's #OOTD. I do so enjoy when that happens. ☺️
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October 28, 2025 at 9:13 PM
So many great action photos turned out with today's #OOTD. I do so enjoy when that happens. ☺️
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Yep, I definitely like it better when the sun is slightly hidden behind the clouds. It *almost* stayed hidden long enough to me to finish my #OOTD pictures! 😅
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October 27, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Yep, I definitely like it better when the sun is slightly hidden behind the clouds. It *almost* stayed hidden long enough to me to finish my #OOTD pictures! 😅
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