exactly!!!

Anyone who is meant to be part of your life will find their way to be part of it while you are making your peace your priority 💞 I know you will make the best decision for YOU! 💕

That’s the kicker isn’t it! even if everyone in the world tells you, unless you actually feel and think it through for yourself, it’s gonna stay the same ❤️‍🩹 I’m glad they were able to finally resolve it and move on. sounds like quite the journey they had and prob learned a lot about themselves

also you don’t have to answer this i’m just curious and have been thinking about this kind of thing a lot heehee

you are doing amazing sweetie, I’m also trying to be a good friend and being kind and not pushing anything too much ❤️‍🩹 it can be hard to choose to end a relationship where you’ve gotten comfy!! so I totally get why she is considering staying. it’s just taking a toll!!!!

imagine if you just ran and caught her by the handles, out of breath because your heart is racing so fast, like who would leave this baby in a carriage and roll it down the sidewalk??!! and it’s just meemaw

was it clear before the marriage that they should have broken up and they just went through the motions and stayed together? or did it get to that point over time?

also:

excited
overjoyed
like your heart is being refilled
interested
recharged
blessed
curious
adventurous
SAFE

oh HELL yes to this 🙂‍↕️💞

I never ever want to overstep my boundaries with her as a friend and separate entity. It’s also tough because I feel like I am in a good position to help her navigate this if she would open up to my advice a bit. I just need to let go and let her have this moment of uncertainty and be there for her!

I’m so glad you had that kind of support Shelby and thank you for sharing your experience 🫶 I am always hoping the best for her and I see her potential for light and happiness and I hope she can navigate all of this!! I am sending you (and your friend) the biggest hugs 🫂

🤣 so so real. I just want what is best for my friends and loved ones!! I have this feeling like she is making so many sacrifices just to stay in this situation and it doesn’t seem like it’s nurturing her or supporting her ❤️‍🩹

yeah facts 😭 I try to gently guide her to discovering her truth with prompts and questions and support her when she discovers the answers and her true feelings. it’s just kinda hard to watch from the outside cause I know she will be happier on the other side of this relationship

I simply kicked all the stupid mother fuckers out of my life and claimed my own. It’s worked wonders because now I have access to deeper layers of myself that I wasn’t aware of when I was around those people constantly and people pleasing/ignoring issues.

i no longer own it but at least i got this slay pic at the venue 🤣🖤 it is super cute!!!!