I'd never use the word to describe someone else, but I'll use it for myself if I want to. I'm getting surgery in a few months and I plan to use the term when with partners and in intimate contexts.
That word shouldn't be in cis folk's mouths, though. It's like reclaiming any other slur.

Do you really want to have all of your posts marked NSFW, because you post a lot of NSFW content? I look at BlueSky at work and at home, and so I would see your content less if an auto-mod labeled your entire content-base as NSFW

Me: This is the art for Helga the fisherwoman!
Players: What's wrong with her hands?
Me: FUCK.
Players: Are those fish in the background melding together?

Looking forward to seeing you at the gym, Alca 💪

Kobolds with guns (massive biceps)

You're a person first, deserving of love and attention for your own merits. I was in the same boat as you now over a year ago, I felt like I needed to be a good enough domme or I would be left alone. The anxiety ate at me. I needed to learn that I couldn't make everyone happy. I hope you find yours❤️