Silva Neves
@silvaneves.bsky.social
Award-winning psychosexual & relationship psychotherapist. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Author. Speaker. Media. AccCOSRT. UKCP.
Author. Speaker. Media. AccCOSRT. UKCP.
I’m celebrating Laurence and all other allies that are so important for our survival. Love wins! ❤️🌈❤️🌈
December 8, 2025 at 10:16 PM
I’m celebrating Laurence and all other allies that are so important for our survival. Love wins! ❤️🌈❤️🌈
History tells us how harmful oppression is, but also how love always wins ❤️🏳️🌈❤️🏳️⚧️❤️🌈
December 8, 2025 at 10:01 PM
History tells us how harmful oppression is, but also how love always wins ❤️🏳️🌈❤️🏳️⚧️❤️🌈
In today’s world, and especially in the USA, we must remember our history because human rights can quickly be taken away and marginalised human lives can be erased. But we will keep our voices heard, our stories told, and our lives legitimised.
December 8, 2025 at 10:01 PM
In today’s world, and especially in the USA, we must remember our history because human rights can quickly be taken away and marginalised human lives can be erased. But we will keep our voices heard, our stories told, and our lives legitimised.
If you want to read about it, Ari wrote a chapter on Intuitive Sexuality in the book Positive Sexuality edited by Emily E. Prior and DJ Williams.
December 7, 2025 at 7:21 PM
If you want to read about it, Ari wrote a chapter on Intuitive Sexuality in the book Positive Sexuality edited by Emily E. Prior and DJ Williams.
It’s so good to know that there are more and more models working with sexual compulsivity that challenges problematic notions of addiction, and instead employ an ethical approach with a primary lens of contemporary sexology.
December 7, 2025 at 7:21 PM
It’s so good to know that there are more and more models working with sexual compulsivity that challenges problematic notions of addiction, and instead employ an ethical approach with a primary lens of contemporary sexology.
❤️ People living with HIV can love as deeply as anyone else and can be wonderful romantic and sexual partners.
❤️ People living with HIV are not defined by their status. They are as human as anyone else.
❤️ People living with HIV are not defined by their status. They are as human as anyone else.
December 1, 2025 at 8:40 PM
❤️ People living with HIV can love as deeply as anyone else and can be wonderful romantic and sexual partners.
❤️ People living with HIV are not defined by their status. They are as human as anyone else.
❤️ People living with HIV are not defined by their status. They are as human as anyone else.
❤️ Let’s say it louder: U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable)
❤️ People living with HIV deserve respect, like everyone else.
❤️ People who are HIV-negative are not “clean”, therefore implying that people living with HIV are “dirty”.
❤️ People living with HIV deserve respect, like everyone else.
❤️ People who are HIV-negative are not “clean”, therefore implying that people living with HIV are “dirty”.
December 1, 2025 at 8:40 PM
❤️ Let’s say it louder: U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable)
❤️ People living with HIV deserve respect, like everyone else.
❤️ People who are HIV-negative are not “clean”, therefore implying that people living with HIV are “dirty”.
❤️ People living with HIV deserve respect, like everyone else.
❤️ People who are HIV-negative are not “clean”, therefore implying that people living with HIV are “dirty”.
It was fabulous to share the stage with amazing speakers: Dr Charmaine Borg, Dr Remziye Kunelaki, David Piner and Prof Antonio Prunas. ❤️🌈
Thank you to Anna Catania for organising it all! ❤️
Thank you to Anna Catania for organising it all! ❤️
November 28, 2025 at 5:03 PM
It was fabulous to share the stage with amazing speakers: Dr Charmaine Borg, Dr Remziye Kunelaki, David Piner and Prof Antonio Prunas. ❤️🌈
Thank you to Anna Catania for organising it all! ❤️
Thank you to Anna Catania for organising it all! ❤️
You can choose a sex-positive therapist from this website:
www.sexpositivityuk.com/compulsive-s...
www.sexpositivityuk.com/compulsive-s...
Find A Therapist
A list of hand-picked specialists in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours trained by Silva Neves and CICS
www.sexpositivityuk.com
November 6, 2025 at 1:20 PM
You can choose a sex-positive therapist from this website:
www.sexpositivityuk.com/compulsive-s...
www.sexpositivityuk.com/compulsive-s...
A genuinely sex-positive therapist will not collude with the fake narrative of “porn addiction” but will help you with the underlying emotional issues. And then, you could still enjoy watching porn, within full awareness, and as part of a balanced life.
Find A Therapist
A list of hand-picked specialists in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours trained by Silva Neves and CICS
www.sexpositivityuk.com
November 6, 2025 at 1:20 PM
A genuinely sex-positive therapist will not collude with the fake narrative of “porn addiction” but will help you with the underlying emotional issues. And then, you could still enjoy watching porn, within full awareness, and as part of a balanced life.
People who have emotional struggles might watch porn compulsively to soothe their pain. And some might eat food compulsively for the same reasons. It is not an addiction, it is a coping strategy.
Find A Therapist
A list of hand-picked specialists in Compulsive Sexual Behaviours trained by Silva Neves and CICS
www.sexpositivityuk.com
November 6, 2025 at 1:20 PM
People who have emotional struggles might watch porn compulsively to soothe their pain. And some might eat food compulsively for the same reasons. It is not an addiction, it is a coping strategy.
