Going from being self loathing to loving myself was the hardest and longest adjustment I’ve ever had to make but I’m so glad that I did it.

in 2006, “Louder Now” by Taking Back Sunday, “December Underground” by AFI & “Anything but the Truth” by The Honorary Title was released. These albums not only changed my life, they shaped who I am.

Situationships? Casually dating? I want to wake up one day next to my spouse and it be our 20th wedding anniversary.

If you’re questioning your life choices, please know that while getting ready for church I reached in my top drawer to get a belt and pulled out a gag. So I get it.

I want the fall, autumn and winter but without the cold. Just like I want love without the hurt.

I want the ppl that used to make fun of the anime kids in high school but now like it because it’s cool to know that I never forgot!

I’d like to start/form a BPD support group for Black & Brown women. Online and hopefully one day in person.