Softer Media
@softermedia.bsky.social
Emotional labour and its intersections...
🎧 It's So Hard podcast
👄 @givetesslove.bsky.social
🌊 Western Australia
🔗 https://beacons.ai/softermedia
🎧 It's So Hard podcast
👄 @givetesslove.bsky.social
🌊 Western Australia
🔗 https://beacons.ai/softermedia
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Oh hi Brisbane... 🙋🏼♀️☀️
January 27, 2026 at 12:51 AM
Oh hi Brisbane... 🙋🏼♀️☀️
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If you can't see the photo I posted today, this app thinks you're a child. 💁🏼♀️
January 29, 2026 at 3:20 AM
If you can't see the photo I posted today, this app thinks you're a child. 💁🏼♀️
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"I could never get paid to write emails because I want my emails to *mean* something..." -How civs sound to me
January 29, 2026 at 3:05 AM
"I could never get paid to write emails because I want my emails to *mean* something..." -How civs sound to me
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The discourse about the Invasion Day terrorist having a suppression order needs to shift from "why does he need protection?" to "state 'protection' is biased"...
January 29, 2026 at 11:14 AM
The discourse about the Invasion Day terrorist having a suppression order needs to shift from "why does he need protection?" to "state 'protection' is biased"...
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Use this information wisely... 😏🔥
January 29, 2026 at 1:45 PM
Use this information wisely... 😏🔥
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"Sensitivity training" for c*ps, researchers, orgs, etc. means extracting knowledge/labour from marginalised people, appropriating our oppression, and resourcing our oppressors...
What happened to "rights not rescue"? What happened to "f ck the rescue industry"?
What happened to "rights not rescue"? What happened to "f ck the rescue industry"?
January 21, 2026 at 9:31 AM
"Sensitivity training" for c*ps, researchers, orgs, etc. means extracting knowledge/labour from marginalised people, appropriating our oppression, and resourcing our oppressors...
What happened to "rights not rescue"? What happened to "f ck the rescue industry"?
What happened to "rights not rescue"? What happened to "f ck the rescue industry"?
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Don't listen to S:/Wers just because we monetise s**. Listen to the people who - whether they've monetised s** or not - said something, and were then accused of vague wrongs like being too selfish, unstable, or unqualified to know...
Scapegoats always know something important. ❤️🔥
Scapegoats always know something important. ❤️🔥
December 3, 2025 at 9:46 AM
Don't listen to S:/Wers just because we monetise s**. Listen to the people who - whether they've monetised s** or not - said something, and were then accused of vague wrongs like being too selfish, unstable, or unqualified to know...
Scapegoats always know something important. ❤️🔥
Scapegoats always know something important. ❤️🔥
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You're not afraid of porn, you're afraid of feeling... 💓
If you’re afraid that books might change someone’s thinking, you’re not afraid of books, you’re afraid of thinking.
December 4, 2024 at 4:31 PM
You're not afraid of porn, you're afraid of feeling... 💓
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And the struggle against classism is necessary on its own... ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
The struggle against classism *is* the struggle against DV. Hope this helps. 😔
December 3, 2025 at 9:50 AM
And the struggle against classism is necessary on its own... ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
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Imagine if there was a film about Australia's social media ban and it was done well. The removal of kids from online spaces, the effort of appearing adult, hiding in plain sight, preexisting child removals, the incarceration industry...
Imagine if there was a film about FOSTA SESTA and it was done well. The removal of sex workers from online spaces since 2018, the effort of appearing civ, hiding in plain sight, preexisting advertising laws, monopolies, facial recognition, border force, social media...
December 7, 2025 at 4:53 AM
Imagine if there was a film about Australia's social media ban and it was done well. The removal of kids from online spaces, the effort of appearing adult, hiding in plain sight, preexisting child removals, the incarceration industry...
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I enjoy meeting people from different walks of life, and I don't discriminate based on race, ability, or gender... 🫶🏻💕🌏
See my gallery and join my mailing list givetesslove.info. 🥰📩
See my gallery and join my mailing list givetesslove.info. 🥰📩
November 25, 2025 at 6:11 AM
I enjoy meeting people from different walks of life, and I don't discriminate based on race, ability, or gender... 🫶🏻💕🌏
See my gallery and join my mailing list givetesslove.info. 🥰📩
See my gallery and join my mailing list givetesslove.info. 🥰📩
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I flew Broome to Karratha to Darwin yesterday. I sat next to a woman who was wearing nice clothes and jewellery, and had perfect lashes. Before take-off, we said hello. I said I was a bookkeeper (not true). She said she was training for her new job at an org in Karratha... 🧵
November 17, 2025 at 5:05 AM
I flew Broome to Karratha to Darwin yesterday. I sat next to a woman who was wearing nice clothes and jewellery, and had perfect lashes. Before take-off, we said hello. I said I was a bookkeeper (not true). She said she was training for her new job at an org in Karratha... 🧵
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Btw I have a podcast... 😌🎧
115. Silencing within Orgs feat. Nat Tang, Chloe Durand, Stuart Venables, and Gemma Frances: "Stop being a hack brutha..."
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November 16, 2025 at 12:11 PM
Btw I have a podcast... 😌🎧
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Jeez... 💔 ngl.link/givetesslove81029
November 16, 2025 at 12:43 PM
Jeez... 💔 ngl.link/givetesslove81029
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Is it bad that this makes me a lil happy? 🤏🏻🤭 ngl.link/givetesslove...
November 15, 2025 at 12:18 PM
Is it bad that this makes me a lil happy? 🤏🏻🤭 ngl.link/givetesslove...
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In this episode, we chat about the toxic patterns that show up in political parties, S:/ W orgs, and other organising spaces... 🎧
November 11, 2025 at 9:50 AM
In this episode, we chat about the toxic patterns that show up in political parties, S:/ W orgs, and other organising spaces... 🎧
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S:/ W in 2025 is... (Ps. S:/ Wers and clients can answer) ngl.link/givetesslove...
Anonymous messages!
Anonymous messages!
ngl.link
November 15, 2025 at 12:03 PM
S:/ W in 2025 is... (Ps. S:/ Wers and clients can answer) ngl.link/givetesslove...
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A few years ago, I caught up with an old friend - an academic. I'd just returned from touring, and I commented on how bookings are a lil different state-to-state. She suddenly became excited. She said I could do a PhD on this...
It's hard to explain why this made me so nervous.
It's hard to explain why this made me so nervous.
November 14, 2025 at 12:40 PM
A few years ago, I caught up with an old friend - an academic. I'd just returned from touring, and I commented on how bookings are a lil different state-to-state. She suddenly became excited. She said I could do a PhD on this...
It's hard to explain why this made me so nervous.
It's hard to explain why this made me so nervous.
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Imagine if there was a film about FOSTA SESTA and it was done well. The removal of sex workers from online spaces since 2018, the effort of appearing civ, hiding in plain sight, preexisting advertising laws, monopolies, facial recognition, border force, social media...
March 12, 2025 at 6:31 AM
Imagine if there was a film about FOSTA SESTA and it was done well. The removal of sex workers from online spaces since 2018, the effort of appearing civ, hiding in plain sight, preexisting advertising laws, monopolies, facial recognition, border force, social media...