Somber
@sombersolstice.bsky.social
This Is Not For You
A personal space. I'll block anybody I'm not comfortable with.
A personal space. I'll block anybody I'm not comfortable with.
Been getting over a lot of different traumas this month
which is great
but it's not fun
which is great
but it's not fun
August 15, 2024 at 1:44 AM
Been getting over a lot of different traumas this month
which is great
but it's not fun
which is great
but it's not fun
to sum up what I thought about recent discourse, as What I Am
playing a game of telephone with angry people just generates needless infighting
more people need to accept that it's okay to ignore it. If strangers are attacking your identity, don't give it any gravity and you won't feel any pressure
playing a game of telephone with angry people just generates needless infighting
more people need to accept that it's okay to ignore it. If strangers are attacking your identity, don't give it any gravity and you won't feel any pressure
August 14, 2024 at 9:12 PM
to sum up what I thought about recent discourse, as What I Am
playing a game of telephone with angry people just generates needless infighting
more people need to accept that it's okay to ignore it. If strangers are attacking your identity, don't give it any gravity and you won't feel any pressure
playing a game of telephone with angry people just generates needless infighting
more people need to accept that it's okay to ignore it. If strangers are attacking your identity, don't give it any gravity and you won't feel any pressure
I posted about baking cookies, someone chimed in to tell me my choice in cookie was Wrong Actually
not even upset about it, just very amused to see a hyperbole of online people come to life and before my very eyes
not even upset about it, just very amused to see a hyperbole of online people come to life and before my very eyes
August 14, 2024 at 6:17 AM
I posted about baking cookies, someone chimed in to tell me my choice in cookie was Wrong Actually
not even upset about it, just very amused to see a hyperbole of online people come to life and before my very eyes
not even upset about it, just very amused to see a hyperbole of online people come to life and before my very eyes
it looks like some shit went on
but I spent today visiting friends and exchanging homemade marinara pasta & garlic bread, for wine and homemade caramel
I feel I've won by doing nothing
but I spent today visiting friends and exchanging homemade marinara pasta & garlic bread, for wine and homemade caramel
I feel I've won by doing nothing
August 12, 2024 at 6:13 AM
it looks like some shit went on
but I spent today visiting friends and exchanging homemade marinara pasta & garlic bread, for wine and homemade caramel
I feel I've won by doing nothing
but I spent today visiting friends and exchanging homemade marinara pasta & garlic bread, for wine and homemade caramel
I feel I've won by doing nothing
I'm starting to
like a boy
like a boy
August 11, 2024 at 6:57 AM
I'm starting to
like a boy
like a boy
I need to acknowledge that I'm generally a force of good in most people's lives
it's a defense mechanism I put in place to keep me from getting a big head or becoming too self-assured to fix any of my flaws
but it's okay for me to know I'm good to others
it's a defense mechanism I put in place to keep me from getting a big head or becoming too self-assured to fix any of my flaws
but it's okay for me to know I'm good to others
August 9, 2024 at 2:16 AM
I need to acknowledge that I'm generally a force of good in most people's lives
it's a defense mechanism I put in place to keep me from getting a big head or becoming too self-assured to fix any of my flaws
but it's okay for me to know I'm good to others
it's a defense mechanism I put in place to keep me from getting a big head or becoming too self-assured to fix any of my flaws
but it's okay for me to know I'm good to others
Tonight's making me rethink dead relationships and the idea of remaining silent until we die
I can't help but struggle to find contention in that now. But I suppose living with that is part of being alive
I can't help but struggle to find contention in that now. But I suppose living with that is part of being alive
August 7, 2024 at 6:24 AM
Tonight's making me rethink dead relationships and the idea of remaining silent until we die
I can't help but struggle to find contention in that now. But I suppose living with that is part of being alive
I can't help but struggle to find contention in that now. But I suppose living with that is part of being alive
the fem/masc pitch shift in the chorus of Something Comforting by Porter Robinson
breaks my heart in the most Gender way a song can
breaks my heart in the most Gender way a song can
July 29, 2024 at 11:49 PM
the fem/masc pitch shift in the chorus of Something Comforting by Porter Robinson
breaks my heart in the most Gender way a song can
breaks my heart in the most Gender way a song can
mentioned on main that I'm not interested in networking with anyone via my nudes anymore
got a DM from a total stranger calling me a "hot dude"
like fucking clockwork lmao
got a DM from a total stranger calling me a "hot dude"
like fucking clockwork lmao
July 27, 2024 at 9:50 PM
mentioned on main that I'm not interested in networking with anyone via my nudes anymore
got a DM from a total stranger calling me a "hot dude"
like fucking clockwork lmao
got a DM from a total stranger calling me a "hot dude"
like fucking clockwork lmao
growing older made me refine a lot of my emotions, but what I wasn't prepared for was how it changed depression
It's no longer just apathy and malaise, those don't really come out of me anymore
It's believing negative things about myself and using that to justify rejecting praise and affection
It's no longer just apathy and malaise, those don't really come out of me anymore
It's believing negative things about myself and using that to justify rejecting praise and affection
July 26, 2024 at 8:53 AM
growing older made me refine a lot of my emotions, but what I wasn't prepared for was how it changed depression
It's no longer just apathy and malaise, those don't really come out of me anymore
It's believing negative things about myself and using that to justify rejecting praise and affection
It's no longer just apathy and malaise, those don't really come out of me anymore
It's believing negative things about myself and using that to justify rejecting praise and affection
finally got my screen protector replaced
no more looking at bubbles, scuffs, and bare spots for a few combined hours a day \o/
no more looking at bubbles, scuffs, and bare spots for a few combined hours a day \o/
July 26, 2024 at 4:10 AM
finally got my screen protector replaced
no more looking at bubbles, scuffs, and bare spots for a few combined hours a day \o/
no more looking at bubbles, scuffs, and bare spots for a few combined hours a day \o/
I don't hate that I'm attracted to men, or hate men in general
but I'm grateful to be able to opt out of dating them these days
but I'm grateful to be able to opt out of dating them these days
July 25, 2024 at 1:09 AM
I don't hate that I'm attracted to men, or hate men in general
but I'm grateful to be able to opt out of dating them these days
but I'm grateful to be able to opt out of dating them these days
you know what's real fun when you think you like somebody
✨mixed messages✨
✨mixed messages✨
July 20, 2024 at 10:00 PM
you know what's real fun when you think you like somebody
✨mixed messages✨
✨mixed messages✨
I get excited over very little
for instance, I've ordered a french press recently
and now I've never been more excited to drink coffee in like a few days
for instance, I've ordered a french press recently
and now I've never been more excited to drink coffee in like a few days
July 19, 2024 at 7:41 AM
I get excited over very little
for instance, I've ordered a french press recently
and now I've never been more excited to drink coffee in like a few days
for instance, I've ordered a french press recently
and now I've never been more excited to drink coffee in like a few days
I am starting to really enjoy baking =3c
July 18, 2024 at 8:53 PM
I am starting to really enjoy baking =3c
one of our roommates installed a fucking lock on his bedroom door
nobody who lives here has ever once shown any inclination to open it without his permission
bro is so fucking paranoid lmao
nobody who lives here has ever once shown any inclination to open it without his permission
bro is so fucking paranoid lmao
July 17, 2024 at 9:03 PM
one of our roommates installed a fucking lock on his bedroom door
nobody who lives here has ever once shown any inclination to open it without his permission
bro is so fucking paranoid lmao
nobody who lives here has ever once shown any inclination to open it without his permission
bro is so fucking paranoid lmao
bit of an untimely reminder of what local furries are like, and why I generally don't interact anymore
July 14, 2024 at 8:29 PM
bit of an untimely reminder of what local furries are like, and why I generally don't interact anymore
my roommate brought back some cake pops
I'm not ungrateful at all
but I've never been more upset about really liking something like this
I'm not ungrateful at all
but I've never been more upset about really liking something like this
July 13, 2024 at 10:59 AM
my roommate brought back some cake pops
I'm not ungrateful at all
but I've never been more upset about really liking something like this
I'm not ungrateful at all
but I've never been more upset about really liking something like this
*isn't horny, actually satiated for once* holy shit it's so nice to be able to focus again
July 10, 2024 at 9:14 PM
*isn't horny, actually satiated for once* holy shit it's so nice to be able to focus again
recipe and method down
once I remember to reform and score my loaves, I will take some real good pictures
once I remember to reform and score my loaves, I will take some real good pictures
July 10, 2024 at 6:38 AM
recipe and method down
once I remember to reform and score my loaves, I will take some real good pictures
once I remember to reform and score my loaves, I will take some real good pictures
it's really weird having dreams about getting closure from people you don't talk to anymore
July 6, 2024 at 12:50 AM
it's really weird having dreams about getting closure from people you don't talk to anymore
I'm learning how to bake bread
It's going
okay
It's going
okay
July 4, 2024 at 8:39 AM
I'm learning how to bake bread
It's going
okay
It's going
okay
Reposted by Somber
Been trying to keep my body image and self-esteem in check. I got used to the positive side of the male gaze in my early 20's, and lost it pretty much entirely after I got old enough.
Growing in the "good" parts of a toxic structure, does little to prepare you for when it phases you out of it
Growing in the "good" parts of a toxic structure, does little to prepare you for when it phases you out of it
June 30, 2024 at 11:14 PM
Been trying to keep my body image and self-esteem in check. I got used to the positive side of the male gaze in my early 20's, and lost it pretty much entirely after I got old enough.
Growing in the "good" parts of a toxic structure, does little to prepare you for when it phases you out of it
Growing in the "good" parts of a toxic structure, does little to prepare you for when it phases you out of it
I've been completely alone for a few days, and I feel the best I have in months =3
I didn't realize how tired I was
I didn't realize how tired I was
June 27, 2024 at 7:56 AM
I've been completely alone for a few days, and I feel the best I have in months =3
I didn't realize how tired I was
I didn't realize how tired I was