spacecooler.bsky.social
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No women are safe in a world of men. Trans women face real threats of violence & denial of identity, while women have always faced high rates of gender-based violence—except with women misogyny is so deeply entrenched that it's basically become normalized & no ones's all that outraged about it...
April 9, 2025 at 4:03 PM
I appreciate your polite response. I've seen this "just asking questions" critique and it's hard to know what to say to that...I've always seen open dialogue and questioning as fundamental to critical thinking. But I guess even questioning is (or can be) political nowadays...
April 8, 2025 at 11:13 PM
Oh, ffs, is this high school?

Social media has truly managed to drag adults into petty, juvenile behavior. I'm genuinely grossed out by the responses I got today. Good reminder that social media is a brain-rotting cesspool.
April 8, 2025 at 10:16 PM
I read plenty. Sorry I'm not a scholar on every possible topic under the sun. Show me an exhaustive study on the topic and I'll bet I can find you one - and a good quality one at that - that presents opposite findings.

There's a reason it's such a divisive issue.
April 8, 2025 at 10:05 PM
They are. The man/woman binary is so deeply embedded in our culture, it’s practically hardwired into our brains. This divide is stitched into our traditions, language, & societal expectations, shaping how we view gender roles and identities. To suggest otherwise is just silly.
April 8, 2025 at 10:02 PM
I sincerely am coming at the topic as someone who's read arguments on both sides of the issue and was (naively, I suppose) thinking I could learn something here.

I guess not. I'm hardly on social media and was just reminded why. It's literally "think just like me or I'll trash you."
April 8, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Finally, a reasonable comment. I completely get that the right could give a fuck about women's sports, and their push to exclude transwomen from sports doesn't reflect a true concern for fairness in sports, but rather, a whole other agenda...
April 8, 2025 at 9:55 PM
A handful of people is hardly "nobody" or "everyone"...but I'm more than fine with you not wanting to talk to me. There's clearly nothing of value I'm going to learn from you and I wasn't here to argue but clearly you are.
April 8, 2025 at 9:45 PM
This isn’t hateful; it’s a significant transformation in how we’ve traditionally understood gender, and it demands thoughtful learning and adaptation. Labeling it as hateful misses the complexity of this change.

When did the left become the thought police?? You sound authoritarian.
April 8, 2025 at 9:43 PM
I've been left my whole life you idiot.

The most basic concepts we’re taught are binary distinctions—black/white, night/day, man/woman. Given this, it’s only natural that a profound shift in how we conceptualize gender—such as the idea of "girl dick"—would require time to process and adjust to...
April 8, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Are you kidding me. Labour?? Isn't that a tad dramatic?
I thought this was social media where you could engage in discussion with others? And angrily? I wasn't angry in the least until a bunch of you came at me.

What a stupid idea to think I might actually learn something here. SMH.
April 8, 2025 at 9:36 PM
You sound unhinged.

This is literally why there's a backlash against transpeople.
It's this (hopefully) small but loud contingent who take a "think as I do or else I'll harm or dox you" approach that really reflects poorly.
April 8, 2025 at 9:29 PM
Grow up. I don't even know what a terf labeler is.
When did the left became as fucking intolerant of questioning & research as the right?
April 8, 2025 at 9:21 PM
What a completely irritating response. I actually bother looking up articles, and reading the best arguments I can on each side of the issue. I'm completely not disingenuous and am trying to be fair minded, but whatever, on social media you have to pick sides and that's all that counts.
April 8, 2025 at 9:19 PM
Settled according to who exactly?
What's a caliper person?
April 8, 2025 at 9:16 PM
Uh, because this is a huge issue nowadays and it's something I'm curious about and trying to learn more about. Is that a problem now too?
April 8, 2025 at 9:14 PM
When did it become unreasonable to ask questions without being immediately labeled as transphobic? I’m not transphobic in the least.
Asking questions or seeking understanding doesn’t mean you’re against anyone—it’s simply engaging with complex issues thoughtfully and critically.
April 8, 2025 at 9:13 PM
That survey is neither here nor there. Half of Americans think Trump is great. So what!?

My understanding is that gender identity can't be reduced to either a belief or an objective fact, but rather, it's a personal, lived experience. It’s about how individuals understand and express themselves.
April 8, 2025 at 9:08 PM
I'm not arguing for the sake of arguing. It's a very complicated and divisive issue and I'm trying to better understand it. I'm all for inclusion and I'm also all for fairness and am trying to understand how we go about reconciling both.

Sorry for not just blindly subscribing to your viewpoint.
April 8, 2025 at 8:57 PM
I don't think there's anything complicated about using the term transwoman. The prefix "trans" distinguishes transwomen from women, while at the same time being a respectful term. Calling a transwoman a man is not, whatever your position is on trans in sports, etc.
April 8, 2025 at 8:49 PM
SMH
April 8, 2025 at 8:40 PM
Can I ask what you mean by transwomen are women? I'm not trolling. I seriously wonder if when people use this phrase they mean it literally or more as a way of accepting/respecting transwomen?
April 8, 2025 at 8:37 PM