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SpicedJam ✨🔞
@spicedjam.bsky.social
Jam but spicy | she/they/fae | 20s | furry

sapphic menace, i like werewolves, vampires, and DnD 💖
-world is largely unaccommodating, and i find myself frustrated that things like durable stim toys, weighted vests, blankets, ear defenders etc are often rather pricy and also largely made for children, as if adults somehow 'age out' of autism.
December 14, 2025 at 6:26 PM
- said, its why talking about disability is so important. The reason why i was told is because i said, "my therapist recommends me to get screened."

At least i know to give myself grace when it comes to meltdowns. I really truly hope you can get the support you deserve. Its frustrating how the-
December 14, 2025 at 6:24 PM
I remember feeling a deep 'maybe something is off' my entire life. Im very lucky to have gotten diagnosed - allegedly. Apparently i had been after my ODD dx (or docs had put it in wrong on purpose...) but it was kept hush until i was told at 21.

I hate how this is such a common story, and as you-
December 14, 2025 at 6:23 PM
I have such a similar experience to your misdiagnosis. Autistic traits were met with strict unkindness and punishment, often making the problem worse.

I never realized that my trichotillomania may be asd stimming!! So much therapy to 'get rid of it' lol, never helped. Much to think about today.
December 14, 2025 at 4:28 PM
And no, I do take very good care of my teeth. I just grind at night and while I have a night guard now, I think we're finding all the weak points that were already gonna go
October 15, 2025 at 6:20 PM
Come see the full ver on this account! ✨
October 14, 2025 at 5:14 PM
So beautiful <3 the colors are breathtaking!
October 14, 2025 at 4:31 PM
YUP thats what happens to me. Its one reason why im super picky about comms/trades as well lol like no i cant do something im not hyped about </3
October 14, 2025 at 1:47 PM
I totally get this- I never participate in 'daily challenges' because it just becomes so much and drawing becomes un-fun! Besides, i'm a slow artist. Not good to push yourself like that
October 14, 2025 at 1:39 PM
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Finished the beading >:]
August 31, 2025 at 1:43 PM