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Erica Merrill, PhD, LCMHC, NCC
Individual and couples counselor & sex therapist

Mental Health❤️‍🩹
Human Rights 🏳️‍🌈
Decolonization 🏞️
Deconstruction ⛪️


Find me at: www.elevatedwellnesscounseling.com
Remember, Reubild, Reclaim. You are not alone. Last night at the annual Human Rights Coalition fundraiser, I was reminded that my community cares and is willing to keep fighting the fight to make our world a better place.
February 10, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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January 21, 2025 at 11:32 PM
Anger is just an indication that our boundaries have been trampled. Once we develop a relationship with our emotions we can let them advocate for our boundaries.
December 15, 2024 at 4:37 PM
This is the reality for now.
December 15, 2024 at 4:35 PM
“Nobody is perfect” has always felt like a dismissive statement. 1- no one is perfect. 2 Are you even clear when behavior is a mistake vs an attempt at control and manipulation? One is worth fixing, the other is abuse.
December 12, 2024 at 5:43 AM
How to know if you’re arguing with a fool.
December 12, 2024 at 5:36 AM
I’ve seen adults who have rightly held their boundaries, prioritized their peace and then been guilted by family members to just establish contact because “family”. How different would the world be if instead of making excuses for poor behavior, we reinforced healthy boundaries?
December 12, 2024 at 5:32 AM
Emotional intelligence is the real flex.
December 12, 2024 at 5:23 AM
Peace is not the absence of conflict but the ability to maintain your boundaries in the presence of it.
December 12, 2024 at 5:22 AM
Sharing some of my recent saves.
December 11, 2024 at 1:27 PM
Why are boundaries so… sexy?
December 11, 2024 at 1:25 PM
Boundaries baby!!
December 11, 2024 at 1:24 PM