No prob! Just heads up that it could be triggering and if they tw something on their page, they mean it. Be safe.💕

That's probably more for others than systems tho.

How your relationship with people depends on who is out and being interacted with by the person? Like I👾 made a friend recently but 🌙 isn't very social. Same body makes it look like a person being hot and cold for no reason. (We've had to out ourselves a few times over this, friend was chill on it)

Trauma Doesn't Lie by Infinity System helped us if you need something sooner than later. They have a playlist focused on denial but it's been a while since we saw them. It also gets harder to deny if you experience fusions.

I thought someone black 2.0ed a house till I read what was said and realized I only imagined seeing windows

For a min I thought it was an accidental tag for the person who actually raided yesterday. I was about to be like "I was there but I'm positive I was lurking" xD
(I did finally join the bongo cat crew tho! Lol)

You can't be there for people in your actionable circle if you're being flooded by stress about everyone and everything outside of it. (I have to remind myself of this a lot too)

I was SO confused for a second! xD

I FORGOT COMMISSION A BUNCH OF ARTISTS

Buy shelves without feeling guilty.
Own a bedframe.
Kitchen with a dishwasher and enough counter space to learn to cook without frustration over space, dirty dishes, and OCD all kicking my ass at the same time.
Laundry machine.
I could go on but these are what I came up with off the top of my head.

Could save to live somewhere we don't have to worry about being kicked out AND be able to do craft shit like furniture without angering neighbours.
We'd have more space to make our workspaces more ADHD friendly.
Be able to afford gifts for more of the family on Christmas.
Visit USA friends again.