Tamsin
tamsin64.bsky.social
Tamsin
@tamsin64.bsky.social
Discovered late in life that I am trans. Very recently came out to my family and still working through all my feelings.
I am realizing how much I have had blinders on most of my life. Living my largely quiet life in suburbia. Now I see how much this community has been vilified.

I am would to get move involved, just not sure where to start.
January 30, 2026 at 11:09 AM
Had a good nights sleep, am feeling more energetic this morning.

I think i am going to let me nails grow out a bit. But they tend to be fragile. If you have any tips, please comment below.

One day at a time.
January 29, 2026 at 11:29 AM
Another day in my journey. I am taking things slow. Making small changes to my appearance. I really need to shop for some new clothes. Want something a bit brighter.

My partner seems to be doing a bit better. So, I am trying not to overwhelm her. I am also trying to be more attentive.
January 28, 2026 at 10:40 AM
Another day in my journey. I came out to my family, at this point only them, last Saturday. My kids handled it well. My partner is still struggling. I know I dumped a lot on her and I am trying to be supportive/understanding. I believe I am still the same person. But she does not see it that way.
January 27, 2026 at 11:05 AM
Starting the second week after coming out. I am sorting out what all this means in terms of family and work. I am realizing that transition is going to be difficult due to how late in life i came out. There is so much to lose between work and family.

Taking it one day at a time and am hopeful.
January 26, 2026 at 9:27 AM