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Nonya
@tazedpanda.bsky.social
My pronouns are a mess. 40.
Writer of erotic fiction. Will get this book finished 🔞

#Bdsm
#shibari
#kinbaku
I never knew people didn't "taste pain" until i wrote it in a smutty story somewhere. Someone burnt their fingers, leaving a copper taste in their mouth. And my partner was like "that's a weird description"

Burning tastes like copper. Cutting and scratching tastes like leather.

A real superpower.
January 23, 2026 at 7:56 PM
(4/3) because I forgot the #smutcember tag.
December 29, 2025 at 8:42 AM
The differences in these terms, are the power they have to give colour to a conversation.

If I'm having a serious discussion with you about my "erotic literature", I might just call it that.

If I am flirting and want you to read some of it, I'll call it trash porn. (3/3)
December 29, 2025 at 8:19 AM
I often end up choosing just for effect. Especially against people that use the terms as a gatekeep.

You call a Gustave Courbet "porn", you can piss off the perfect subset of people.

So while I think they largely all mean the same, I don't think they should just be used interchangeable. (2/3)
December 29, 2025 at 8:19 AM
Here's a crazy: if you go to the UK or Ireland, with a valid driver's license from a normal place, they will give you a car with many of the controls reversed and say "you'll be fine".

Little sticker on the steering wheel: "keep left!"

Perfectly safe.
December 25, 2025 at 7:16 PM
I will always interact with your work from extreme personal perspective.

You can claim to be an artist, but I, as a consumer of what you created, am allowed to reject that claim.

That way, IOTA is probably the most literal form of DOTA you can imagine.
December 25, 2025 at 12:37 PM
I tried Ubuntu off and on for a decade. It never stuck. The reason was Gnome, not Ubuntu itself. After trying kubuntu, I realized KDE was a way better fit for my brain.

I think for most people it's not so much the distro, its the DE which is important.

Haven't turned back to windows or mac since.
December 17, 2025 at 7:35 PM
However, as a linux user, i often google in order to break my stuff.
November 12, 2025 at 2:03 PM
That can be my super power. Being blindsighted by sudden splatter.

(I loved everything about it)
November 10, 2025 at 6:10 PM
That's pretty wild. Can't even remember goop on the star!

For me that entire final quarter or so was "okay, didn't expect it to go full trash like that". Went in with just the title and demi Moore. Thought it would be about wrinkles and drug abuse.
November 10, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Okay. Either I am misremembering the actual final shot, or we live on very different planes of existence. :)
November 10, 2025 at 5:49 PM
Now i am curious. Did you, in fact, predict the final shot?
November 10, 2025 at 5:45 PM
* Twitch * ❤️
November 7, 2025 at 3:34 PM
Ya.

"Past me was so smart"
"Past me was so filthy"
"Past me was so dumb"

Sometimes all three in a single piece of writing even.
November 2, 2025 at 9:04 PM