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The Mel Jar
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An Ashkenazi-Californian hysteric proudly in the phallic stage of psychosexual/psychotherapist development. A fun enough person. Skeets for the jouissance. NOT Mel Klein.
An announcement: I have done a thing. I have started a Substack, and I have written an overly long introductory post. What I am asking you to do now is to check this post out, and subscribe to my Substack. Hopefully, you won't totally regret that. themeljar.substack.com/p/im-startin...
September 28, 2025 at 2:36 PM
I think that it’s good not to be too wowed by many people in medicine and psychology who lived and worked in certain places during certain periods of time. I think that it’s good to look at their work as a whole with a certain understanding, and, y’know, not fully embrace their terms and ideas.
September 27, 2025 at 4:45 AM
Um, I think You Oughta Know that Alanis Morissette earned a PhD yesterday. You Live, You Learn indeed — nothing particularly Ironic about that, Don’t You Think?
September 20, 2025 at 10:36 PM
I think we should demand this design, on the proprietary, elite couches.
September 10, 2025 at 9:59 PM
Felt like crap, bought new shoes, now feeling slightly less like crap.
August 30, 2025 at 2:19 AM
Me and my fam, kickin’ it in Ruth Asawa’s living room from the 60s. Go see the exhibit at SFMOMA if you haven’t already!
August 11, 2025 at 2:26 AM
Oh no! That sucks. I miss you, too! So, a gift for you: this is my favorite cheese, currently. Shropshire Blue. My most preferred version is sold at Berkeley Bowl. It’s arguably 50% of my current diet. Choosing the most sensual cheese photo I could find online for this.
August 10, 2025 at 4:27 AM
🕎🕎💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
January 2, 2025 at 2:25 AM
Sparkly New Year’s top. ✨🥂
January 1, 2025 at 11:39 PM
Today’s perfume. I suspect I won’t be alone in choosing this today and tomorrow! Smells exactly like a boozy apple pie, but in the best way.
December 24, 2024 at 10:55 PM
My cheesy festive dress for the day, straight from 2011 Zoey Deschanel hipster fashion. Head cut off for privacy, not for other assassination associations re: celebrating Christmas.
December 24, 2024 at 10:45 PM
Personally, I would rate our transit much higher, but this website also seems to be confused about where exactly in Berkeley I live! But the other scores are correct, everything you could ever need is extremely accessible on foot a few blocks around my apartment.
December 8, 2024 at 5:59 AM
I’m obsessed with this fragrance. Love it so much.
December 8, 2024 at 1:34 AM
Is this app a safe place for me to share that I’m doing the hopelessly cringe millennial thing of wearing my RBG dissent collar necklace today? Honestly I only wear it ever because I think it’s a cool design.
November 30, 2024 at 8:18 PM
The cheese that proves the existence of God.
September 6, 2023 at 9:57 PM