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Heidi
@thecunningwif.bsky.social
Mortician, Pagan, & whole-ass Virginian mountain witch. Chronically ill with a post-Covid inflammatory disease. Cis, pansexual, she/her.
🙄 ugh
December 5, 2025 at 3:02 AM
My coworker wants to do the same, but she's hesitant to bc she's a dark-skinned Black woman who already has to deal with microaggressions in a majority-white company & is seen as "aggressive" when she's just being assertive. It's not right.
December 5, 2025 at 12:08 AM
Apparently 5 people had great experiences with him. I suspect he has deep knowledge of a very narrow subset of rheumatology, and if you fall into that disease category, he's great. If you don't, he thinks you're the problem.
December 4, 2025 at 5:30 AM
I found another potential doc, though! My tenacity is ruthless. I just need to not get my hopes up and expect the worst so I'll either be proved right or be pleasantly surprised 😅
December 4, 2025 at 5:14 AM
I'm chronically ill with an energy-limiting inflammatory disease, but I'm also a 38yo suited professional who's on her feet most of the day and I like heels sometimes, dammit!
November 30, 2025 at 6:01 PM
I'll see my long covid doc again in January & we'll... figure out next steps.
November 25, 2025 at 12:28 PM
We were talking about the thermostat, fyi. Lmao
November 20, 2025 at 11:03 PM
For the funeral, they took all of them out of storage. They were all still perfectly preserved in glass-topped caskets. At the end of the service, our staff caravanned all these caskets to the family gravesite & collectively buried them, per the family's wishes.

Why do I dream these things 😐
November 15, 2025 at 6:16 AM