The Queer Gaze
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A biweekly podcast where Conrad and Joe react to LGBTQ+ film from every country and every decade, complete with nuanced discussion of queer representation and issues.
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So it turns out that JONGENS is actually a track and field 'Sports Gay' film.

Directed by Mischa Camp, this beautifully shot made-for-TV film was so popular that it was eventually shown in theatres and distributed around the world.

Plus: Marc's patience with Sieger, motorcycles, and another fair!
Jongens (2014)
Podcast Episode · The Queer Gaze · 2025-10-02 · 20m
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Tomorrow on Patreon: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social quietly transition from 'Sports Gays' to our new theme on 'Cruising' with Harris Dickinson's big screen debut, BEACH RATS.

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A blue filtered picture of three white teen boys, shirtless, facing away from the camera at the tide coming in
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Today on The Queer Gaze: @joelipsett.bsky.social and @conrad-esq.bsky.social drop the first of several bonus episodes from #TIFF50.

First up: a review of Richard Linklater's biopic of Lorenz Hart, starring his 'Before Trilogy' collaborator Ethan Hawke, as well as Margaret Qualley and Andrew Scott
Blue Moon (2025)
Podcast Episode · The Queer Gaze · Ep7 Bonus · 17m
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On Patreon, @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social chat about the drama-free end, which doesn't entirely satisfy (no apologies again?!)

Plus: confusion about why Theo, Sieger's father, is so upset about the bike; made-for-TV intimacy; and praise for a gentle, simple coming out story.
Jongens: Bonus Content | The Queer Gaze Patreon
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So it turns out that JONGENS is actually a track and field 'Sports Gay' film.

Directed by Mischa Camp, this beautifully shot made-for-TV film was so popular that it was eventually shown in theatres and distributed around the world.

Plus: Marc's patience with Sieger, motorcycles, and another fair!
Jongens (2014)
Podcast Episode · The Queer Gaze · 2025-10-02 · 20m
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Tomorrow on the pod: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social discuss track and field movie JONGENS, a queer coming of age made-for-TV Dutch film that was so popular it go picked up for international theatrical exhibition!
Two pale shirtless teenage boys sit on a listing dock with their toes in the water
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The sexual tension in #Jongens is best expressed through shoving, apparently... #queermovies #lgbtfilm #lgbtmovies #lgbt
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Today on The Queer Gaze Patreon: So much for swimming!

It turns out the 2014 Dutch film JONGENS is actually a track and field 'Sports Gay' film.
Early Access: Jongens (2014) | The Queer Gaze Patreon
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Tomorrow on Patreon: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social hit up Dutch made-for-TV film JONGENS aka BOYS (2014).

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Two teen boys with abs for days standing in wet black shorts in front of a river
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We're exposing the locker room talk in 'Riley' (2023) in our Patreon-exclusive bonus episode on the film: www.patreon.com/TheQueerGaze
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Ready for more? @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social hit the field for an extended discussion that includes Dakota's issues with his father, questions about Jaeden's backstory and how he identifies, and making Skylar more than the beard.

Oh yeah, and all of those Abercrombie abs!
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Our last true "Sports Gay" entry is American football film RILEY (2023) from writer/director Benjamin Howard.

The problem (and most interesting aspect of the film) is that Dakota’s sexuality doesn't "fit" in the narrative that he and his oppressive father/coach have constructed for his future.
Riley (2023)
Podcast Episode · The Queer Gaze · 2025-09-18 · 24m
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Tomorrow on the pod: @conrad-esq.bsky.social and @joelipsett.bsky.social drop the latest episode in their 'Sports Gay' series with 2023's RILEY, about a closeted HS football player.
Two photos. In the top photo a topless white teenager boy with schwoopy brown hair smiles at a reclining black teen boy. 

In the bottom picture: an out of focus man reclines half naked on a bed in front of the shirtless white teen boy from the top picture
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Riley might not be the most interesting character in 'Riley' (2023). Our new episode for our 'sports gays' theme is out on Thursday: feeds.acast.com/public/shows...

But Patreons have access to it now: www.patreon.com/TheQueerGaze
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Since I DON’T UNDERSTAND YOU is now streaming on Hulu, it’s a good excuse to re-up our pair of discussions on the film.

We have a spoiler-free chat on the Main Feed and a spoiler-y discussion on Patreon.
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Here's a special spoiler-free bonus episode on David Joseph Craig and Brian Crano's dark comedy I DON’T UNDERSTAND YOU (2025), about a gay couple (Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells) in Italy who find themselves in hot water following a series of miscommunications.
I Don't Understand You (2025)
Podcast Episode · The Queer Gaze · Ep5 Bonus · 11m
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Today on Patreon: Joe and Conrad's last true "Sports Gay" entry is American football film RILEY (2023) from writer/director Benjamin Howard.
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Tomorrow on Patreon: Conrad and Joe continue our 'Sports Gay' theme with a look at American football movie, RILEY (2023)
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We found the ending of 'Handsome Devil' baffling and irritating. Find out why in our Patreon-exclusive bonus episode: www.patreon.com/TheQueerGaze
#handsomedevil #nicholasgalitzine #andrewscott #lgbtfilm #queermovies
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THE WEDDING BANQUET (2025)
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Ready for more? Conrad and Joe unpack our frustrations with non-apologies, as well as the purportedly "feel good" ending at the big game.

Plus: Scott's exceptionally complicated queer teacher/mentor, calling out Ned's plagiarism, more comparisons to Dead Poet's Society, and ties to NZ film Uproar.
Handsome Devil: Bonus Extras | The Queer Gaze Patreon
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Ready for more? Conrad and Joe unpack our frustrations with non-apologies, as well as the purportedly "feel good" ending at the big game.

Plus: Scott's exceptionally complicated queer teacher/mentor, calling out Ned's plagiarism, more comparisons to Dead Poet's Society, and ties to NZ film Uproar.
Handsome Devil: Bonus Extras | The Queer Gaze Patreon
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The second entry of our 'Sports Gays' theme is super cute Irish friend-com Handsome Devil (2016).
Featuring a great supporting role by Andrew Scott (before he was, you know, "Andrew Scott").

Plus: muddled messages about conformity, 90s vibes, and the cycles of queer issues.
Handsome Devil (2016)
Podcast Episode · The Queer Gaze · 2025-09-04 · 21m
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We're checking out #nicholasgalitzine's early role as closeted rugby boy in 'Handsome Devil' in our latest 'sports gays' episode. Out on Thursday... or now, if your a patron: www.patreon.com/TheQueerGaze