Please I'm begging you, log off, take some time to cool down and get back to the real world. you are right to be frustrated, I even think you're right about how everyone is willing to overlook fatphobia, but you keep building an ever shrinking echo chamber and can't handle criticism of your beliefs

"You are making the community look bad/weird"

Yeah, there are assholes like that.
Usually "HOW DARE YOU BE WEIRDER THAN I AM COMFORTABLE WITH"
"How dare you be horny"
"How dare you make me feel uncomfortable"

Oh yeah. Adults are going to be horny. Adults are going to be weird.
Fuck those assholes.