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Tom Zimbardo
@tommostlyzen.bsky.social
Neuropsychologist, Mad Dok, Ork Enthusiast, Ukraine Supporter, Dogfather
Your assumption that I’m neurotypical is wrong, along with the rest of your assumptions
May 10, 2025 at 9:00 PM
That’s a really horrible response. You have no idea who I am. I’ll chose to be compassionate rather than being mean back
May 10, 2025 at 8:06 PM
I’ve never worked in trans services but I am a clinician and I’ve had trans patients and been cool with them. Sorry if you or people you know have had bad ones
May 10, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Definitely - there’s a thing called diagnostic overshadowing which is when someone has one label, people often think *everything* is due to that label, when in fact people can have several things going on at the same time, all of which need to be identified
May 10, 2025 at 5:49 PM
I don’t think you can coerce someone into an autism assessment - the waiting lists are unacceptably long though - there are biological brain differences for some trans people like sexually dimorphic nucleus etc… if anything that validates being trans I’d say
May 10, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Thanks for agreeing with the logic. I do accept some people could exploit this in bad faith and hope that this isn’t the case too often
May 10, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Cis Straight male and ADHD here - I accept you and hope it’s helps you understand yourself and feel happier ❤️
May 10, 2025 at 5:45 PM
And that’s not to knock anyone who is genuinely trans, just that it’s not always the answer for everyone. Being gay is hard and being trans is even harder no doubt.

Anyway, just trying to be kind and open minded. Take care ❤️
May 10, 2025 at 5:43 PM
But I do worry that some kids, especially girls, who don’t fit in with typical girls, might think being trans is the answer when being gay and/or autistic might be closer to what’s going on
May 10, 2025 at 5:42 PM
I’ve got a friends daughter who is waiting for an autism assessment. Also thinks she might be non binary. Not sure who she finds attractive cos it’s not cool to ask 14 year olds that unless you know them very well. Kindness and acceptance is what’s important
May 10, 2025 at 5:41 PM
I mean there could be some people who want to pretend it’s all autism and no one is trans, but these things aren’t mutually exclusive. We need to accept people whether they’re trans, autistic, gay or whatever
May 10, 2025 at 5:40 PM
There are higher rates of being autistic and other sorts of neurodiversity in trans people though, and also higher rates of being trans in autistic people too, so it’s not completely daft to assess people for this. Pre-natal testosterone for example can affect neurodiversity and gender identify too
May 10, 2025 at 5:30 PM
Probably should have tweeted about it earlier really 😂 what are people called Tweets on Bluesky anyway? Miaows?
May 10, 2025 at 5:18 PM
It’s Pye Corner Audio that has be come to hear because of his track Storm Cloud in the YouTube video above @headtech.bsky.social is his handle on here and here’s the gig

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The countdown begins - couple of months to go. A lot of interest in this - cracking line up!
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May 10, 2025 at 5:18 PM
Looking forward to hearing you and the others tonight man 😁
May 10, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Yeah it’s been fun so far. A welcome distraction from the real world
May 10, 2025 at 11:16 AM
We have been watching all of the Star Treks, in chronological order of the in universe timeline, in an attempt to ignore the monsters (Trump and Musk). So far we are up to Deep Space Nine season one
May 10, 2025 at 9:32 AM
Only if it’s a 30 min or less Power Nap. If you exceed 30+ mins you go into the deeper sleep phase and you’ll wake up feeling groggy #SleepNeuroscience
May 9, 2025 at 11:55 AM
Sausage doesn’t translate well from one culture to another I don’t think. In Mississippi they have this brand of spiced sausage called Country Pleasin’ and it’s like if German and Italian sausages had babies. Nothing like it over here
May 8, 2025 at 4:55 PM
I’m ok thanks - been diagnosed with ADHD recently, so am processing that but it makes sense of a lot of things. Work is ok and wife and dog are still lovely - how are you doing?
May 8, 2025 at 8:41 AM
Good luck 🤞
May 8, 2025 at 8:22 AM