And yes I know this shit is uncomfortable. Realizing you’ve fucked up, even unintentionally, always sucks! The question is whether you prioritize your momentary discomfort over the inclusion of minorities.

You’re gonna fuck up. We all do. You’re allowed to change but you gotta make that right step

For the love of gods, pay attention to us when shit ain’t wrong. When we ain’t mad. Incorporate us into your lives rather than existing in a bubble of whiteness. Partake in our joy, not just our rage.

Actually see us as fucking people.

The moment we’re no longer “one of the good ones” to the larger white community, it falls back on systemic antiblackness regardless of how leftist or progressive the community opines itself to be.

Keep in mind, no longer being “one of the good ones” can be as little as being too annoying or vocal