Trevor James
@trevorjamesla.bsky.social
Masseur; cuddle therapist; sacred intimate; intimacy coach for individuals and couples; workshop facilitator; author of "On Being Seen: Chronicles of a Touch & Intimacy Therapist" | www.TrevorJamesLA.com
Are You Afraid to Love, or Afraid To Feel? open.substack.com/pub/trevorja...
September 18, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Are You Afraid to Love, or Afraid To Feel? open.substack.com/pub/trevorja...
What If Your Masculinity Isn’t “Toxic” — It’s Just Unexpressed?
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What If Your Masculinity Isn’t “Toxic” — It’s Just Unexpressed?
Rethinking what’s really going on beneath the surface of modern masculinity
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September 13, 2025 at 9:03 PM
What If Your Masculinity Isn’t “Toxic” — It’s Just Unexpressed?
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Think of your “sexual ethics” as your personal rulebook for sex.
Why this is important: if you move about in ways that are mismatched with your sexual ethics, you will be left feeling “dirty,” “broken,” and ashamed.
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Why this is important: if you move about in ways that are mismatched with your sexual ethics, you will be left feeling “dirty,” “broken,” and ashamed.
coachkevmartin.substack.com/p/your-sexua...
Your Sexual Ethics
Most of us weren’t taught how to think about sex.
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September 11, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Think of your “sexual ethics” as your personal rulebook for sex.
Why this is important: if you move about in ways that are mismatched with your sexual ethics, you will be left feeling “dirty,” “broken,” and ashamed.
coachkevmartin.substack.com/p/your-sexua...
Why this is important: if you move about in ways that are mismatched with your sexual ethics, you will be left feeling “dirty,” “broken,” and ashamed.
coachkevmartin.substack.com/p/your-sexua...
Sex vs. God: Finding Harmony open.substack.com/pub/trevorja...
June 23, 2025 at 10:59 PM
Sex vs. God: Finding Harmony open.substack.com/pub/trevorja...
Emotional Nudity: What It’s Like to Be Truly Seen by Another Man trevorjamesla.substack.com/p/emotional-...
June 16, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Emotional Nudity: What It’s Like to Be Truly Seen by Another Man trevorjamesla.substack.com/p/emotional-...
June 13, 2025 at 3:44 PM
Why I Work With Men
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Why I Work with Men
And Why It’s the Most Important Work of My Life
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May 26, 2025 at 9:14 PM
Why I Work With Men
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The Hidden Signs of Loneliness in Men
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The Hidden Signs of Loneliness in Men
I talk to a lot of men in my work—men from all walks of life, different ages, different backgrounds.
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May 19, 2025 at 8:32 PM
The Hidden Signs of Loneliness in Men
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Eros & Essence
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Eros & Essence | Trevor James | Substack
Helping men reconnect with their bodies, integrate sex & spirit, and experience authentic intimacy through touch therapy, coaching, and retreats. Author of "On Being Seen: Chronicles of a Touch & Inti...
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May 2, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Eros & Essence
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