To quote classical music "Nobody likes you when you're twenty-three (23)"

Just the latter. Familys somewhat conservative but know not to bring it up ever. Regardless if they disown me its their loss!
Theres not really any negatives to the situation other than the immediate awkwardness and probably having to explain what nonbinary even is (several times)

Apparently you can use your own website domains as username, as how they do verification here. Still not sure why they made the default so long

How quickly do you think he'll make engineers put in an exception for his own tweets