Twyla Joi
@twyla-joi.bsky.social
Mother, grandmother, and writer.
Navigating grandmotherhood while advocating for my autistic child.
I turn everyday observations into stories 💛
Navigating grandmotherhood while advocating for my autistic child.
I turn everyday observations into stories 💛
Snow in the South what a beautiful morning
January 18, 2026 at 9:40 PM
Snow in the South what a beautiful morning
Reflections
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
January 17, 2026 at 11:41 PM
Reflections
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
What lesson did this week leave with you?
Sit with it. Let it speak.
— TJ💛
It's ok to say No
-TJ💛
-TJ💛
January 17, 2026 at 1:20 AM
It's ok to say No
-TJ💛
-TJ💛
Wind-Down
The week has had its say.
Whatever didn’t get finished can wait.
Whatever weighed you down doesn’t need to come with you.
Tonight is for unwinding—not reviewing.
— TJ 💛
The week has had its say.
Whatever didn’t get finished can wait.
Whatever weighed you down doesn’t need to come with you.
Tonight is for unwinding—not reviewing.
— TJ 💛
January 16, 2026 at 11:16 PM
Wind-Down
The week has had its say.
Whatever didn’t get finished can wait.
Whatever weighed you down doesn’t need to come with you.
Tonight is for unwinding—not reviewing.
— TJ 💛
The week has had its say.
Whatever didn’t get finished can wait.
Whatever weighed you down doesn’t need to come with you.
Tonight is for unwinding—not reviewing.
— TJ 💛
You don’t have to carry this week any further than today.
Happy Friday💛
Happy Friday💛
January 16, 2026 at 6:05 PM
You don’t have to carry this week any further than today.
Happy Friday💛
Happy Friday💛
🌙Midweek Check-In
The week is still unfolding.
Some things are working.
Some things aren’t—and that’s information, not failure.
Midweek is a place to adjust, not judge.
#MidweekReflection #PauseAndAdjust
#GentleProgress
— TJ 💛
The week is still unfolding.
Some things are working.
Some things aren’t—and that’s information, not failure.
Midweek is a place to adjust, not judge.
#MidweekReflection #PauseAndAdjust
#GentleProgress
— TJ 💛
January 14, 2026 at 11:18 PM
🌙Midweek Check-In
The week is still unfolding.
Some things are working.
Some things aren’t—and that’s information, not failure.
Midweek is a place to adjust, not judge.
#MidweekReflection #PauseAndAdjust
#GentleProgress
— TJ 💛
The week is still unfolding.
Some things are working.
Some things aren’t—and that’s information, not failure.
Midweek is a place to adjust, not judge.
#MidweekReflection #PauseAndAdjust
#GentleProgress
— TJ 💛
You’re allowed to adjust midweek.
Nothing is locked in.
Happy Wednesday💛
Nothing is locked in.
Happy Wednesday💛
January 14, 2026 at 11:55 AM
You’re allowed to adjust midweek.
Nothing is locked in.
Happy Wednesday💛
Nothing is locked in.
Happy Wednesday💛
Presence
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
January 13, 2026 at 12:21 AM
Presence
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
Monday can be heavy.
If today didn’t look the way you hoped, that’s okay.
If all you managed today was presence, that was enough.
Let the rest wait.
— TJ 💛
Reset
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
January 12, 2026 at 1:09 AM
Reset
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
The day is done.
Notice the moments you followed your heart.
Notice the moments you didn’t
Tonight, a gentle question to sit with: What did you carry with intention today, and what will you leave behind?
No judgment. No rushing. Just noticing.
#SundayReset #IntentionalLiving
— TJ 💛
Wake up with intention. Let your heart lead, not your to-do list.
Happy Sunday 💛
Happy Sunday 💛
January 11, 2026 at 12:14 PM
Wake up with intention. Let your heart lead, not your to-do list.
Happy Sunday 💛
Happy Sunday 💛
Love in Pause
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
January 11, 2026 at 2:54 AM
Love in Pause
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
Saturday nights make us think about love the kind we have, miss, and are learning to give ourselves.
Tonight, instead of measuring love by who’s present or absent, my question to you is:
What does calm, safe love feel like in your body?
No fixing Just noticing
#GentleTruths
—TJ 💛
January 10, 2026 at 8:59 PM
Morning, Sky! ☀️
It’s morning for most, but I just survived another night. Third shift is definitely not for the weak. 😅
See you later — enjoy your day! 💛
#ThirdShiftLife
It’s morning for most, but I just survived another night. Third shift is definitely not for the weak. 😅
See you later — enjoy your day! 💛
#ThirdShiftLife
January 10, 2026 at 12:51 PM
Morning, Sky! ☀️
It’s morning for most, but I just survived another night. Third shift is definitely not for the weak. 😅
See you later — enjoy your day! 💛
#ThirdShiftLife
It’s morning for most, but I just survived another night. Third shift is definitely not for the weak. 😅
See you later — enjoy your day! 💛
#ThirdShiftLife
Today's reminder:
Strength doesn’t always look like holding it together.
Sometimes it looks like resting, setting boundaries, and choosing peace unapologetically.
A strong woman knows when to lay it down.
-TJ
Strength doesn’t always look like holding it together.
Sometimes it looks like resting, setting boundaries, and choosing peace unapologetically.
A strong woman knows when to lay it down.
-TJ
January 10, 2026 at 6:28 AM
Today's reminder:
Strength doesn’t always look like holding it together.
Sometimes it looks like resting, setting boundaries, and choosing peace unapologetically.
A strong woman knows when to lay it down.
-TJ
Strength doesn’t always look like holding it together.
Sometimes it looks like resting, setting boundaries, and choosing peace unapologetically.
A strong woman knows when to lay it down.
-TJ