like, one year she bought an entire wardrobe of *men's* clothes (in a style i have literally never worn in my life), and a giant ~10lbs heavily frosted cake (i dont like cake and frosting especially makes me nauseous). it's so exhausting every single year with her

i feel that, i never did holidays growing up and as an adult every year my mom insists on forcing gifts on me that i dont like/cant use/specifically said i dont want. It always ends with me throwing away the gifts and her being mad at me for months after

love it when the real life experiences they chronicle are just "every woman hates me and thinks im a mean dumb loser with no hobbies. also i am a defender of women and speak for the majority of us"

shoutout the the cis girl i became friends with who actually sees me as a woman unconditionally and made me realize i should cut out ppl around me who have hangups about doing the same

just to be clear this is just me venting about IRL stuff. like i've gently offered help with hrt (both diy and informed consent) to anyone who laments about dysphoria trans women are the only ones who dont get mad at help being offered

shoutout the the cis girl i became friends with who actually sees me as a woman unconditionally and made me realize i should cut out ppl around me who have hangups about doing the same

since you asked so nicely :3

Dont make them have complicated feeling by having an ex, asking about politics, reacting negatively to their terrible behavior, mentioning sti testing, wanting to use a condom, having different kinks than them, etc

watching castlevania and taking a shot every time i think "god i wish that was me"