sweeping inflammatory statements about strangers who enjoy it, but the moment someone uses those tags and spaces to be positive and enthusiastic about a same-sex ship, its fetishisation. Almost as if a man is incapable of loving and therefore mischaracterised unless he is fixed by a woman

I’ve had a mild browse and I don’t want to be too severe as the biggest offender seems to be genuinely unwell and it’s a free blocklist — but it’s weird how it gets to be called boundary-setting when the m/f-sex shipper uses main tags to whinge about how much they hate a same-sex ship +

And in those community spaces too! Like how do you not realise that posting “i feel persecuted in this fandom for not liking a ship” and “fans of the ship i hate are unintelligent yaoi fetishists with bad personalities” complete with zero name or tag censoring is hypocritical wolf-crying

it’s impossible to look at that man’s tag on tumblr without someone lamenting how they can’t avoid estimeric in the sea of caucasian m/f ship gposes. they behave like estimeric existing implies that aymeric is unfaithful to their female w*l. i downloaded bsky again to escape it but…