Victoria 🏳️⚧️
@victoria.efertone.me
Software Engineer, Parent, Tabletop Fan (ttrpg too), long term Linux user, fight for human rights with focus on LGBTQ+.
If I don't get a joke or a reference, please excuse me, ASD has some drawbacks. Let me know in a civil way so I can learn. Thank you :)
If I don't get a joke or a reference, please excuse me, ASD has some drawbacks. Let me know in a civil way so I can learn. Thank you :)
When we crossed from 2016 into 2017, we decided to have a child together. Well, here he is 9 years later, with a huge, smiling photobombing face. He burst into our lives—and into our photos! #HappyNewYear #memories
December 31, 2025 at 11:30 PM
When we crossed from 2016 into 2017, we decided to have a child together. Well, here he is 9 years later, with a huge, smiling photobombing face. He burst into our lives—and into our photos! #HappyNewYear #memories
December 31, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Family D&D marathon in progress!
Moving from Starport to a full one-shot for Kornél’s first time. We’re deep into a Winter Festival quest and taking a quick breather before the finale.
Party: Wizard, Ranger, Fighter, and me behind the screen. Love seeing the whole family play together! #DnD #TTRPG
Moving from Starport to a full one-shot for Kornél’s first time. We’re deep into a Winter Festival quest and taking a quick breather before the finale.
Party: Wizard, Ranger, Fighter, and me behind the screen. Love seeing the whole family play together! #DnD #TTRPG
December 24, 2025 at 4:14 PM
The tree is ready :)
December 21, 2025 at 8:52 PM
The tree is ready :)
I’m torn about Mochi’s story from #SNL - it’s such a mix of terrible and brilliant. I honestly don’t know how to feel.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZoIf...
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Mochi - SNL
YouTube video by Saturday Night Live
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December 21, 2025 at 12:51 AM
I’m torn about Mochi’s story from #SNL - it’s such a mix of terrible and brilliant. I honestly don’t know how to feel.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZoIf...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZoIf...
Oh Swim Bird, dare to swim again, dare to swim!
I got this from my wife, the best wife ever, best wives ever. She crocheted me a #SwimBird from #BluePrince.
I got this from my wife, the best wife ever, best wives ever. She crocheted me a #SwimBird from #BluePrince.
December 20, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Oh Swim Bird, dare to swim again, dare to swim!
I got this from my wife, the best wife ever, best wives ever. She crocheted me a #SwimBird from #BluePrince.
I got this from my wife, the best wife ever, best wives ever. She crocheted me a #SwimBird from #BluePrince.
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a short trans / lgbtq comic about how it feels. I hope you all have pride in who you are, even when the going gets tough.
October 18, 2023 at 8:22 PM
a short trans / lgbtq comic about how it feels. I hope you all have pride in who you are, even when the going gets tough.
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Despair posting 1
i recently had a mental breakdown so ill be making a few despair comics to get it out of my system, the only way i really know how. i'll be fine.. probably.
i recently had a mental breakdown so ill be making a few despair comics to get it out of my system, the only way i really know how. i'll be fine.. probably.
November 28, 2025 at 1:44 PM
Despair posting 1
i recently had a mental breakdown so ill be making a few despair comics to get it out of my system, the only way i really know how. i'll be fine.. probably.
i recently had a mental breakdown so ill be making a few despair comics to get it out of my system, the only way i really know how. i'll be fine.. probably.
Lately, I’ve found myself wondering if I have the strength to keep my head above the waves. Some days, doubt quietly slips in and lingers, and those days seem to be coming around more often.
November 27, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Lately, I’ve found myself wondering if I have the strength to keep my head above the waves. Some days, doubt quietly slips in and lingers, and those days seem to be coming around more often.
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A relentless desire to keep dreaming
November 20, 2025 at 5:28 PM
A relentless desire to keep dreaming
"𝐷𝑜𝑛'𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑛𝑎 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑜𝑓 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠
𝑊𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑛'𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑔𝑜 𝑡𝑜 𝑤𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒
𝑊𝑒'𝑙𝑙 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑓𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑠𝑒𝑒
𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑢𝑝 𝑠𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑒, 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟
𝑊𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑆𝑒𝑝𝑡𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟"
-- 𝐷𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝐺𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑈𝑝 𝑁𝑜𝑤! by 𝑀𝑎𝑒𝑇ℎ𝑒𝑃𝑖𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay #WSPD #WSPD2025 #notalone
𝑊𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑛'𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑔𝑜 𝑡𝑜 𝑤𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒
𝑊𝑒'𝑙𝑙 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑓𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑠𝑒𝑒
𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑢𝑝 𝑠𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑒, 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟
𝑊𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑆𝑒𝑝𝑡𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟"
-- 𝐷𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝐺𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑈𝑝 𝑁𝑜𝑤! by 𝑀𝑎𝑒𝑇ℎ𝑒𝑃𝑖𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay #WSPD #WSPD2025 #notalone
September 10, 2025 at 6:29 PM
"𝐷𝑜𝑛'𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑛𝑎 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑜𝑓 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠
𝑊𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑛'𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑔𝑜 𝑡𝑜 𝑤𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒
𝑊𝑒'𝑙𝑙 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑓𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑠𝑒𝑒
𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑢𝑝 𝑠𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑒, 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟
𝑊𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑆𝑒𝑝𝑡𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟"
-- 𝐷𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝐺𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑈𝑝 𝑁𝑜𝑤! by 𝑀𝑎𝑒𝑇ℎ𝑒𝑃𝑖𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay #WSPD #WSPD2025 #notalone
𝑊𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑛'𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑔𝑜 𝑡𝑜 𝑤𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒
𝑊𝑒'𝑙𝑙 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑓𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑠𝑒𝑒
𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑢𝑝 𝑠𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑒, 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟
𝑊𝑒 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑎𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑙 𝑆𝑒𝑝𝑡𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟"
-- 𝐷𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝐺𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑈𝑝 𝑁𝑜𝑤! by 𝑀𝑎𝑒𝑇ℎ𝑒𝑃𝑖𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay #WSPD #WSPD2025 #notalone
🏳️⚧️ In a major development, the Advocate General stated that under EU law provisions on freedom of movement and fundamental right to private and family life, Member States have an obligation to legally recognise the lived gender of their nationals. #EU #TransRights #trans
www.tgeu.org/landmark-opi...
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Landmark opinion: Top EU lawyer backs trans people’s right to legal gender recognition across the EU - TGEU - Trans Europe and Central Asia
Last week, Advocate General of the Court of Justice of the European Union Richard de la Tour delivered his Opinion in the case C-43/24 Shipov. The case was brought forward by a Bulgarian trans woman c...
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September 9, 2025 at 9:06 PM
🏳️⚧️ In a major development, the Advocate General stated that under EU law provisions on freedom of movement and fundamental right to private and family life, Member States have an obligation to legally recognise the lived gender of their nationals. #EU #TransRights #trans
www.tgeu.org/landmark-opi...
www.tgeu.org/landmark-opi...
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Experience the full #SwordoftheSea Official Soundtrack with text commentary from @awintory.bsky.social offering insights into the creative process! 🌊🎵
Listen here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vo1B...
Listen here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vo1B...
Sword of the Sea | Full Official Soundtrack w/ Composer Commentary
YouTube video by Austin Wintory
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September 5, 2025 at 10:11 PM
Experience the full #SwordoftheSea Official Soundtrack with text commentary from @awintory.bsky.social offering insights into the creative process! 🌊🎵
Listen here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vo1B...
Listen here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vo1B...
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🎁8 DAYS TO CHARITY FUNDRAISER💚
Today we are revealing our first community milestone! Once $150 is fundraised for the community, we will be doing a giveaway of a graphic portrait (by @oozwin.bsky.social)
Check back tomorrow for more! @tiltify.com
#Jackdotorg #Charity #Fundraiser #Twitch
Today we are revealing our first community milestone! Once $150 is fundraised for the community, we will be doing a giveaway of a graphic portrait (by @oozwin.bsky.social)
Check back tomorrow for more! @tiltify.com
#Jackdotorg #Charity #Fundraiser #Twitch
August 30, 2025 at 7:25 PM
🎁8 DAYS TO CHARITY FUNDRAISER💚
Today we are revealing our first community milestone! Once $150 is fundraised for the community, we will be doing a giveaway of a graphic portrait (by @oozwin.bsky.social)
Check back tomorrow for more! @tiltify.com
#Jackdotorg #Charity #Fundraiser #Twitch
Today we are revealing our first community milestone! Once $150 is fundraised for the community, we will be doing a giveaway of a graphic portrait (by @oozwin.bsky.social)
Check back tomorrow for more! @tiltify.com
#Jackdotorg #Charity #Fundraiser #Twitch
Today marks my two years on hormones ( #GATh). It's still so weird to thing back to my life before I started to live as myself. That person, I know it was me, feels strange and not familiar at all. Whenever I think about that life, at first it feels like I look back to an old friend, but not myself.
August 29, 2025 at 11:15 PM
Today marks my two years on hormones ( #GATh). It's still so weird to thing back to my life before I started to live as myself. That person, I know it was me, feels strange and not familiar at all. Whenever I think about that life, at first it feels like I look back to an old friend, but not myself.
People on the internet with #kubernetes knowledge and history. I try to understand #KYAML. I understand the reason why they opted for a new modified format, and I agree with that. The only thing I just can't see, why it's called KYAML and not KJSON.
August 29, 2025 at 9:57 PM
People on the internet with #kubernetes knowledge and history. I try to understand #KYAML. I understand the reason why they opted for a new modified format, and I agree with that. The only thing I just can't see, why it's called KYAML and not KJSON.
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How to Protect Your Chats from Prying Eyes
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August 29, 2025 at 12:48 PM
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🤗FUNDRAISER ANNOUNCEMENT💚
WHAT: Streaming to raise funds for Jack.org
WHEN: September 7-13, 2025
WHY: support mental health awareness and resources for young adults
Donations accepted through @tiltify.com and live streams held on #Twitch (links in comments below)
#Charity #Fundraiser
WHAT: Streaming to raise funds for Jack.org
WHEN: September 7-13, 2025
WHY: support mental health awareness and resources for young adults
Donations accepted through @tiltify.com and live streams held on #Twitch (links in comments below)
#Charity #Fundraiser
August 20, 2025 at 3:30 PM
🤗FUNDRAISER ANNOUNCEMENT💚
WHAT: Streaming to raise funds for Jack.org
WHEN: September 7-13, 2025
WHY: support mental health awareness and resources for young adults
Donations accepted through @tiltify.com and live streams held on #Twitch (links in comments below)
#Charity #Fundraiser
WHAT: Streaming to raise funds for Jack.org
WHEN: September 7-13, 2025
WHY: support mental health awareness and resources for young adults
Donations accepted through @tiltify.com and live streams held on #Twitch (links in comments below)
#Charity #Fundraiser
Online Safety Act has very little in common with safety and it's useless. Wtf did they think, people will stop using services just because you said so? That never worked, why would it work now. VPN providers will get 1000+% users 😂 well done.
If you are looking for one, @proton.me is a good choice.
If you are looking for one, @proton.me is a good choice.
July 26, 2025 at 6:05 PM
Online Safety Act has very little in common with safety and it's useless. Wtf did they think, people will stop using services just because you said so? That never worked, why would it work now. VPN providers will get 1000+% users 😂 well done.
If you are looking for one, @proton.me is a good choice.
If you are looking for one, @proton.me is a good choice.
Aaaaand name change request submitted. Now the painful 45 days waiting for the response "they reject it" and file a court appeal :/ yes, I'm not so optimistic about it 😅
July 16, 2025 at 11:06 AM
Aaaaand name change request submitted. Now the painful 45 days waiting for the response "they reject it" and file a court appeal :/ yes, I'm not so optimistic about it 😅
9 years of marriage with the best spouse in the universe (known and unknown). Today was that anniversary. I'm so happy I have her by my side. I can thank her so much (and I do a lot). I love her and after my transition, we have an even better life together, like a million times better.
July 16, 2025 at 12:49 AM
9 years of marriage with the best spouse in the universe (known and unknown). Today was that anniversary. I'm so happy I have her by my side. I can thank her so much (and I do a lot). I love her and after my transition, we have an even better life together, like a million times better.
Tomorrow (well technically today) I have an appointment to change my name. In Hungary there's no legal gender recognition, and everyone can pick a name from a pre-approved list that matches their gender marker in their birth certificate. Obviously I can't take up the name that I have used for years.
July 16, 2025 at 12:41 AM
Tomorrow (well technically today) I have an appointment to change my name. In Hungary there's no legal gender recognition, and everyone can pick a name from a pre-approved list that matches their gender marker in their birth certificate. Obviously I can't take up the name that I have used for years.
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How to Get Your Friends to Use Threema
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