Everyone's Hopefully Favorite Dandy
@yourdandy.bsky.social
Award-Winning Black 🌈 Dandy out to make the world a more beautiful and more inclusive place. http://www.iamadandy.com
Collective Current Mood
November 5, 2025 at 4:33 AM
Collective Current Mood
Absolutely, and I enjoy my fancier costumes whenever the need arises to reflect my inner flamboyance
November 2, 2025 at 7:50 AM
Absolutely, and I enjoy my fancier costumes whenever the need arises to reflect my inner flamboyance
I came in 3rd at the Ball, beaten by two Black trans women (out of fairness, no human can defeat a Black trans woman in a ball).
And I advanced to the Top 10 for Style Icon, still currently in 2nd place styleicon.org/2025/phil-po...
And I advanced to the Top 10 for Style Icon, still currently in 2nd place styleicon.org/2025/phil-po...
October 31, 2025 at 10:20 AM
I came in 3rd at the Ball, beaten by two Black trans women (out of fairness, no human can defeat a Black trans woman in a ball).
And I advanced to the Top 10 for Style Icon, still currently in 2nd place styleicon.org/2025/phil-po...
And I advanced to the Top 10 for Style Icon, still currently in 2nd place styleicon.org/2025/phil-po...
What people don't understand is that people have called me ugly, stupid, and worthless my entire life, and they continue to do so today. Not yet getting a job doesn't help
October 28, 2025 at 3:42 PM
What people don't understand is that people have called me ugly, stupid, and worthless my entire life, and they continue to do so today. Not yet getting a job doesn't help
I decided to reminisce on my old Cemetery Potluck lewks yesterday for Flower Factory and produced this Goth lewk. Also, a personal celebration for getting rid of a toxic dark entity in my life alongside being around 🔥 beautiful friends and guys in defiance of "can't interact with others"
October 13, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I decided to reminisce on my old Cemetery Potluck lewks yesterday for Flower Factory and produced this Goth lewk. Also, a personal celebration for getting rid of a toxic dark entity in my life alongside being around 🔥 beautiful friends and guys in defiance of "can't interact with others"
The theme for this year's PTown Carnival was "Summer Camp". I remember my childhood going to summer camp and having Christmas in July, so let's make it Dandy! In August, but who's counting?
#ptowncarnival #summercamp #christmasinjuly🎄 #queerfashion
#ptowncarnival #summercamp #christmasinjuly🎄 #queerfashion
August 31, 2025 at 11:33 AM
The theme for this year's PTown Carnival was "Summer Camp". I remember my childhood going to summer camp and having Christmas in July, so let's make it Dandy! In August, but who's counting?
#ptowncarnival #summercamp #christmasinjuly🎄 #queerfashion
#ptowncarnival #summercamp #christmasinjuly🎄 #queerfashion
Me, of course
August 31, 2025 at 10:30 AM
Me, of course
I impressed my coworkers with my skills and producing near 💯 their homepage for a demo of the proposed rewrite. They even admitted that they didn't expect my proof-of-concept to be near-identcal to the live version! Yay!
Also this
Also this
July 17, 2025 at 4:22 PM
I impressed my coworkers with my skills and producing near 💯 their homepage for a demo of the proposed rewrite. They even admitted that they didn't expect my proof-of-concept to be near-identcal to the live version! Yay!
Also this
Also this
No yt 🍊 loving not see yt r@cist gay calling me a r@cist is going to ruin my start of Social Summer, but we really need to stop wanting to 🍆 or 🍑 not see yt r@cist gays. Gays, pay attention.
Meanwhile, this was me @tradebardc @capitalpridedc #dandy #maximalism #pride2025 #capitalpride
Meanwhile, this was me @tradebardc @capitalpridedc #dandy #maximalism #pride2025 #capitalpride
May 27, 2025 at 11:03 AM
No yt 🍊 loving not see yt r@cist gay calling me a r@cist is going to ruin my start of Social Summer, but we really need to stop wanting to 🍆 or 🍑 not see yt r@cist gays. Gays, pay attention.
Meanwhile, this was me @tradebardc @capitalpridedc #dandy #maximalism #pride2025 #capitalpride
Meanwhile, this was me @tradebardc @capitalpridedc #dandy #maximalism #pride2025 #capitalpride
Here is Part 2 of New York Met Gala weekend:
I went to Julius' Bar, a recommendation by one of my best friends who used to work there. I had a blast! People LOVED my lewk!
Now it's your turn. My evening lewk for the Met Gala weekend #metgala2025 #superfine #blackdandyism #dandy #dandyism #fashion
I went to Julius' Bar, a recommendation by one of my best friends who used to work there. I had a blast! People LOVED my lewk!
Now it's your turn. My evening lewk for the Met Gala weekend #metgala2025 #superfine #blackdandyism #dandy #dandyism #fashion
May 8, 2025 at 11:11 PM
Here is Part 2 of New York Met Gala weekend:
I went to Julius' Bar, a recommendation by one of my best friends who used to work there. I had a blast! People LOVED my lewk!
Now it's your turn. My evening lewk for the Met Gala weekend #metgala2025 #superfine #blackdandyism #dandy #dandyism #fashion
I went to Julius' Bar, a recommendation by one of my best friends who used to work there. I had a blast! People LOVED my lewk!
Now it's your turn. My evening lewk for the Met Gala weekend #metgala2025 #superfine #blackdandyism #dandy #dandyism #fashion
I refuse to ruin my Easter by reading that.. message. This is the orange I need during Easter #kylieminogue #tensiontour #easter2025 #Easter #dandy #fashion #lgbtqia
April 20, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I refuse to ruin my Easter by reading that.. message. This is the orange I need during Easter #kylieminogue #tensiontour #easter2025 #Easter #dandy #fashion #lgbtqia
I don't need to go into much deeper introspection into my upgrade of my 2019 Dandy Walk lewk except how blessed my day and evening were while dressed in my 2019 Dandy Walk upgrade lewk, all while we're suffering GayThreads #bunkerclubdc #crushdancebar #flowerfactory_party
April 14, 2025 at 3:27 AM
I don't need to go into much deeper introspection into my upgrade of my 2019 Dandy Walk lewk except how blessed my day and evening were while dressed in my 2019 Dandy Walk upgrade lewk, all while we're suffering GayThreads #bunkerclubdc #crushdancebar #flowerfactory_party
This was my lewk last night for the Orpheus Ball. I missed the runway walk for Best Dressed due to my Uber driver going to the wrong location, but here I am anyway #fyp #spring #spring2025 #Wonderland #ball #transcendence #dandy #dandylion #dandyism #steampunk #fashion #style #dapper #fancy
March 30, 2025 at 1:45 PM
This was my lewk last night for the Orpheus Ball. I missed the runway walk for Best Dressed due to my Uber driver going to the wrong location, but here I am anyway #fyp #spring #spring2025 #Wonderland #ball #transcendence #dandy #dandylion #dandyism #steampunk #fashion #style #dapper #fancy
I love my life
March 25, 2025 at 5:15 PM
I love my life
March 9, 2025 at 6:44 AM
March 4, 2025 at 5:57 PM
In the midst of a very bad week I take back my power, in a silly, campy, fashion forward kind of way, in time for Mardi Gras and the subsequent celebration at TRADE.
Laissez les bons temps rouler (sur les mals hommes)
#mardigras2025 #mardigras #lgbtqia #drag #dragisart #dandy #dandyism #style
Laissez les bons temps rouler (sur les mals hommes)
#mardigras2025 #mardigras #lgbtqia #drag #dragisart #dandy #dandyism #style
March 2, 2025 at 2:01 PM
In the midst of a very bad week I take back my power, in a silly, campy, fashion forward kind of way, in time for Mardi Gras and the subsequent celebration at TRADE.
Laissez les bons temps rouler (sur les mals hommes)
#mardigras2025 #mardigras #lgbtqia #drag #dragisart #dandy #dandyism #style
Laissez les bons temps rouler (sur les mals hommes)
#mardigras2025 #mardigras #lgbtqia #drag #dragisart #dandy #dandyism #style
Fed up and going to look cute tonight at Crush, because I am old disabled neurodivergent misshapen black gay fem queer dandy who can look like this and that is all GayThreads
February 23, 2025 at 10:05 PM
Fed up and going to look cute tonight at Crush, because I am old disabled neurodivergent misshapen black gay fem queer dandy who can look like this and that is all GayThreads
Your clues to this week's episode of @rupaulsdragcon.bsky.social
February 22, 2025 at 5:26 AM
Your clues to this week's episode of @rupaulsdragcon.bsky.social
"I would be happy to do so only on the condition that whenever we have s*x we do it to the music of DEATH METAL".
He quietly crept away from me. That's all. It's fun. I'm weird and memorable. Abracadabra #gay #lgbtq #Abracadabra #redandwhite #dandy #fashion #maximalism #maximalist
He quietly crept away from me. That's all. It's fun. I'm weird and memorable. Abracadabra #gay #lgbtq #Abracadabra #redandwhite #dandy #fashion #maximalism #maximalist
February 18, 2025 at 4:08 PM
"I would be happy to do so only on the condition that whenever we have s*x we do it to the music of DEATH METAL".
He quietly crept away from me. That's all. It's fun. I'm weird and memorable. Abracadabra #gay #lgbtq #Abracadabra #redandwhite #dandy #fashion #maximalism #maximalist
He quietly crept away from me. That's all. It's fun. I'm weird and memorable. Abracadabra #gay #lgbtq #Abracadabra #redandwhite #dandy #fashion #maximalism #maximalist
Story Time (and I want to shamelessly promote my lewks):
Decades ago, when Ramrod was still in DC, I was there being me, when this older leather daddy approached me and ordered(!) me to be his s|äv3. Now aside from the Race Of It All, and the Consent Of It All, I said to him:
Decades ago, when Ramrod was still in DC, I was there being me, when this older leather daddy approached me and ordered(!) me to be his s|äv3. Now aside from the Race Of It All, and the Consent Of It All, I said to him:
February 18, 2025 at 4:04 PM
Story Time (and I want to shamelessly promote my lewks):
Decades ago, when Ramrod was still in DC, I was there being me, when this older leather daddy approached me and ordered(!) me to be his s|äv3. Now aside from the Race Of It All, and the Consent Of It All, I said to him:
Decades ago, when Ramrod was still in DC, I was there being me, when this older leather daddy approached me and ordered(!) me to be his s|äv3. Now aside from the Race Of It All, and the Consent Of It All, I said to him:
Not exactly a fan of St. Valentine's Day. My only boyfriend Larry d13d August 2009, 6 months before my only (that I know of) opportunity to celebrate. I will somehow still be happy for LGBTQ+ couples, throuples, and situationals on this day.. as I personally wince #valentinesday #lgbtq
February 14, 2025 at 3:49 PM
Not exactly a fan of St. Valentine's Day. My only boyfriend Larry d13d August 2009, 6 months before my only (that I know of) opportunity to celebrate. I will somehow still be happy for LGBTQ+ couples, throuples, and situationals on this day.. as I personally wince #valentinesday #lgbtq