I'm in!

The alternative is for them to accept that luck is a huge part of success, and no one wants that in a world where we want everything to be about our own individual agency/capacity/skill/whatever.

It didn't come up very often, which is why the confusion lasted as long as it did.

It's extremely confusing, when at any moment people don't know if we're special snowflakes or a fast follower or whatever. And it changes all the time, depending on narrative needs.

I don't think of either of them enough to think of them by expertise first, which I think would lessen the confusion.

It has been over two decades, and I still refuse to go back to the so-called woman-friendly bike shop in Seattle that sold me a terribly fitted custom bike when I didn't know any better.

I am here for it.

For the longest time I thought Tony Robbins and Tom Robbins were the same person, and I was so confused.