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I just wanted to respond on this point to say it doesn't matter how "good" things are in life like with buying a house etc that it automatically stops depression, it can hit any time, so don't feel dumb at all, you are awesome

Always available for a chat if you want to as well :)
January 7, 2026 at 3:35 PM
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roodypatooti.bsky.social
Wish I could internalize this
brightwanderer I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned "forever" into the only acceptable definition of success. Like... if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it's a "failed" business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don't actually want to keep doing that, you're a "failed" writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it's a "failed" marriage. The only acceptable "win condition" is "you keep doing that thing forever". A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a "real" friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a "phase" - or, alternatively, a "pity" that you don't do that thing any more. A fandom is "dying" because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things. I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it's okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success... I don't think that's doing us any good at all.
October 30, 2025 at 1:34 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
Same
December 23, 2025 at 3:58 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
I agree with this 😊
December 13, 2025 at 9:05 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
What on earth
December 3, 2025 at 1:32 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
Nails are lit 🔥
November 15, 2025 at 6:48 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
It makes sense, if you think about it
November 8, 2025 at 7:26 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
Worth
October 10, 2025 at 5:42 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
This is me every work day
Or when I try to play games
Or when I try to do painting
Or when I try to sleep
October 10, 2025 at 5:34 PM
zirconix.bsky.social
Brenda is the main character, so...
October 8, 2025 at 8:36 AM
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September 1, 2025 at 11:53 AM