I almost bought this

Do this for findom as well.

I don’t fuck around and neither should you.

Get your bag and don’t let someone get the best of you.

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Your time is ALWAYS more valuable than their’s. Bottom feeders bottom feeder and you are the tippy top. Prove it.

Be out of their reach and stop feeding them immediately.

This will save you weeks and months of wasted hours on vetting loser after loser who claims to want to better your life.

Scammers will panic here and say anything the can to avoid this step because real sugar parents willing to give you massive amounts of $ or even smaller amounts will absolutely fork over a mere $50 or $100 if they mean it and respect you

You don’t want to involve yourself with anyone who doesn’t

You will be ignored until I see it.

There are no further questions until you finish<3

You give your pay options clearly.

Give clear instructions and explanation how to pay you; What your price is.

You tell them “once you finish verify pay we may continue this discussion.”

Screenshot your payment and show me. I am used to fake screenshots so understand if I don’t see it on my end-

I usually demand verify pay immediately if they approach with sugar intentions. If you met mutually I’ll usually have a bit of conversation first but the second it takes a sexual vibe I shut it down and demand paywall.

They will do anything to keep you talking. ANYTHING….filthy time wasters.

There will never ever EVER be such thing as a pay method where it asks them to have you cover a fee to have them send money. One of the most common scams. If you fall for it I am pre embarrassed for you.

If they start talking like this laugh in their face and block.

Always protect your peace.

Ask them what methods they use and dear god make sure they are sex worker safe methods that will not punish you if you are reported for selling sexual products such as PayPal…. NEVER PayPal.

I use cash app or Venmo ONLY and don’t you EVER FUCKING give them your bank info

Discussion for me typically takes an hour or two so whatever you think your time is worth hourly for discussion expect it up front and cut them off until they follow through. Period.

You explain what it is for so you both are clear, and be as kind as you feel you should be.

Gauge the vibe.