This is an evil question just like the March vs Evernight one a while back… it’s like asking if you prefer your addiction vs the sweet ambrosial nectar…
That said, I did put some of the silly cow choccy mix in my morning coffee yesterday and I think that did fix me for like 10 mins
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That said, I did put some of the silly cow choccy mix in my morning coffee yesterday and I think that did fix me for like 10 mins
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February 3, 2026 at 3:21 AM
This is an evil question just like the March vs Evernight one a while back… it’s like asking if you prefer your addiction vs the sweet ambrosial nectar…
That said, I did put some of the silly cow choccy mix in my morning coffee yesterday and I think that did fix me for like 10 mins
#askjayniejam
That said, I did put some of the silly cow choccy mix in my morning coffee yesterday and I think that did fix me for like 10 mins
#askjayniejam
Fugue hsr no chronic pain hands down. I wish I could be that pretty and have that many fluffy tails god damn
If I can’t have fugue with that stipulation, then I’ll take Mydei but after she’s been on hrt for two years
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If I can’t have fugue with that stipulation, then I’ll take Mydei but after she’s been on hrt for two years
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February 3, 2026 at 2:20 AM
Fugue hsr no chronic pain hands down. I wish I could be that pretty and have that many fluffy tails god damn
If I can’t have fugue with that stipulation, then I’ll take Mydei but after she’s been on hrt for two years
#askjayniejam
If I can’t have fugue with that stipulation, then I’ll take Mydei but after she’s been on hrt for two years
#askjayniejam
Don’t flame me for this, but tossing a tortilla in a pan and folding it over some shredded cheese for a classic stove top quesadilla is the bestest and fastest comfort food trust
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#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 2:17 AM
Don’t flame me for this, but tossing a tortilla in a pan and folding it over some shredded cheese for a classic stove top quesadilla is the bestest and fastest comfort food trust
#askjayniejam
#askjayniejam
Idk if I’m the best to answer this bc it’s been years since this has been a daily issue for me. But what I can say is that it still hits sometimes, and like always, you just kinda brave the storm
Like any other depressive moment
Love and support in various forms goes a long way too
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Like any other depressive moment
Love and support in various forms goes a long way too
#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 2:13 AM
Idk if I’m the best to answer this bc it’s been years since this has been a daily issue for me. But what I can say is that it still hits sometimes, and like always, you just kinda brave the storm
Like any other depressive moment
Love and support in various forms goes a long way too
#askjayniejam
Like any other depressive moment
Love and support in various forms goes a long way too
#askjayniejam
Yup I mostly done it all 😎 However, I don’t really see “transitioning” to have like an end finish line, if that makes sense?
I’m very fortunate to have had the time and resources to pretty much reach all of my goals I initially set but the “transition” itself is just living each day
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I’m very fortunate to have had the time and resources to pretty much reach all of my goals I initially set but the “transition” itself is just living each day
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February 3, 2026 at 2:09 AM
Yup I mostly done it all 😎 However, I don’t really see “transitioning” to have like an end finish line, if that makes sense?
I’m very fortunate to have had the time and resources to pretty much reach all of my goals I initially set but the “transition” itself is just living each day
#askjayniejam
I’m very fortunate to have had the time and resources to pretty much reach all of my goals I initially set but the “transition” itself is just living each day
#askjayniejam
Why pit two queens against each other?
But.. if I must… I believe you know the answer (so long as I can save Komano Manato from the losing side….)
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But.. if I must… I believe you know the answer (so long as I can save Komano Manato from the losing side….)
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February 3, 2026 at 1:58 AM
Why pit two queens against each other?
But.. if I must… I believe you know the answer (so long as I can save Komano Manato from the losing side….)
#askjayniejam
But.. if I must… I believe you know the answer (so long as I can save Komano Manato from the losing side….)
#askjayniejam
I do! I have a very cuddly and needy cat. Here is my son Fern (named after adventure time not frieren)
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February 3, 2026 at 1:55 AM
I do! I have a very cuddly and needy cat. Here is my son Fern (named after adventure time not frieren)
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#askjayniejam
Besides not go to work, not a whole lot differently. I wouldn’t travel super far bc spending time in traffic is already my hell on earth, so I’d want to savor the day with people and things I love
So, prob call some friends and family, and then spend the day with my wife and cat :)
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So, prob call some friends and family, and then spend the day with my wife and cat :)
#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:49 AM
Besides not go to work, not a whole lot differently. I wouldn’t travel super far bc spending time in traffic is already my hell on earth, so I’d want to savor the day with people and things I love
So, prob call some friends and family, and then spend the day with my wife and cat :)
#askjayniejam
So, prob call some friends and family, and then spend the day with my wife and cat :)
#askjayniejam
Bunnies of all kind are super cute!!!
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#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:46 AM
Bunnies of all kind are super cute!!!
#askjayniejam
#askjayniejam
Genshin - I only pulled flins before taking a break, so him Jean, Fischl, and Bennet together was working great lmao
HSR - absolute fav is feixiao/march/aven/robin. Follow up is cinema
ZZZ - yuzuali + viv, seeing Alice explode assaults is everything!!! (astralyn lighter is peak too)
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HSR - absolute fav is feixiao/march/aven/robin. Follow up is cinema
ZZZ - yuzuali + viv, seeing Alice explode assaults is everything!!! (astralyn lighter is peak too)
#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:34 AM
Genshin - I only pulled flins before taking a break, so him Jean, Fischl, and Bennet together was working great lmao
HSR - absolute fav is feixiao/march/aven/robin. Follow up is cinema
ZZZ - yuzuali + viv, seeing Alice explode assaults is everything!!! (astralyn lighter is peak too)
#askjayniejam
HSR - absolute fav is feixiao/march/aven/robin. Follow up is cinema
ZZZ - yuzuali + viv, seeing Alice explode assaults is everything!!! (astralyn lighter is peak too)
#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:27 AM
Hm it’s tough, but as a general rule, I’ve found that once you land on an overal style for yourself you stop caring so much about the “standards” set by industries meant to make you want to hate yourself
Above all personal happiness with your appearance is what matters most!
#askjayniejam
Above all personal happiness with your appearance is what matters most!
#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:23 AM
Hm it’s tough, but as a general rule, I’ve found that once you land on an overal style for yourself you stop caring so much about the “standards” set by industries meant to make you want to hate yourself
Above all personal happiness with your appearance is what matters most!
#askjayniejam
Above all personal happiness with your appearance is what matters most!
#askjayniejam
Your son is very beautiful thank you for sharing him with the world!! 😭🫶
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#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:17 AM
Your son is very beautiful thank you for sharing him with the world!! 😭🫶
#askjayniejam
#askjayniejam
Awww thank you! You’re very cool for saying such nice things!!!
I really can’t say enough how appreciative I am that people enjoy these silly stories I write. It makes me happy to know yall are happy to see the content :,)
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I really can’t say enough how appreciative I am that people enjoy these silly stories I write. It makes me happy to know yall are happy to see the content :,)
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February 3, 2026 at 1:16 AM
Awww thank you! You’re very cool for saying such nice things!!!
I really can’t say enough how appreciative I am that people enjoy these silly stories I write. It makes me happy to know yall are happy to see the content :,)
#askjayniejam
I really can’t say enough how appreciative I am that people enjoy these silly stories I write. It makes me happy to know yall are happy to see the content :,)
#askjayniejam
Honestly? Prob not super foxgirl on a scale of puppy to fox lol. I myself am a little too puppy with it I’m afraid
While Lady Jam is semi sona, if it truly was me with the jam ears, I’d probably have those floppy puppygirl ears made of jam instead of fox ears. But who’s to say really
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While Lady Jam is semi sona, if it truly was me with the jam ears, I’d probably have those floppy puppygirl ears made of jam instead of fox ears. But who’s to say really
#askjayniejam
February 3, 2026 at 1:12 AM
Honestly? Prob not super foxgirl on a scale of puppy to fox lol. I myself am a little too puppy with it I’m afraid
While Lady Jam is semi sona, if it truly was me with the jam ears, I’d probably have those floppy puppygirl ears made of jam instead of fox ears. But who’s to say really
#askjayniejam
While Lady Jam is semi sona, if it truly was me with the jam ears, I’d probably have those floppy puppygirl ears made of jam instead of fox ears. But who’s to say really
#askjayniejam
January 19, 2026 at 3:27 AM
Oh boy lol, well, ya know.. years of internalizing and thinking “surely not… right?” Until something gave in
There wasn’t like “a moment”, I sorta always knew? There just kinda came a point when I was like 20 when I just couldn’t not live authentically anymore, if that makes sense?
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There wasn’t like “a moment”, I sorta always knew? There just kinda came a point when I was like 20 when I just couldn’t not live authentically anymore, if that makes sense?
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January 19, 2026 at 3:25 AM
Oh boy lol, well, ya know.. years of internalizing and thinking “surely not… right?” Until something gave in
There wasn’t like “a moment”, I sorta always knew? There just kinda came a point when I was like 20 when I just couldn’t not live authentically anymore, if that makes sense?
#askjayniejam
There wasn’t like “a moment”, I sorta always knew? There just kinda came a point when I was like 20 when I just couldn’t not live authentically anymore, if that makes sense?
#askjayniejam
Uhhh I played ygo duel links for like the first year when that came out?
But for like a real gacha, I somehow avoided them for years until a perfect storm of my last big interest (jjk) was ending and an irl friend suggested me and my wife both play hsr. So here we are lol rip
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But for like a real gacha, I somehow avoided them for years until a perfect storm of my last big interest (jjk) was ending and an irl friend suggested me and my wife both play hsr. So here we are lol rip
#askjayniejam
January 19, 2026 at 3:16 AM
Uhhh I played ygo duel links for like the first year when that came out?
But for like a real gacha, I somehow avoided them for years until a perfect storm of my last big interest (jjk) was ending and an irl friend suggested me and my wife both play hsr. So here we are lol rip
#askjayniejam
But for like a real gacha, I somehow avoided them for years until a perfect storm of my last big interest (jjk) was ending and an irl friend suggested me and my wife both play hsr. So here we are lol rip
#askjayniejam
Insect - bumblebees are cute :3
Anthropod - surprisingly, I’ve always been fascinated by horseshoe crabs, so we’ll go with that!
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Anthropod - surprisingly, I’ve always been fascinated by horseshoe crabs, so we’ll go with that!
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January 19, 2026 at 3:13 AM
Insect - bumblebees are cute :3
Anthropod - surprisingly, I’ve always been fascinated by horseshoe crabs, so we’ll go with that!
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Anthropod - surprisingly, I’ve always been fascinated by horseshoe crabs, so we’ll go with that!
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Respectfully, no??
I’m of the opinion that life happens and that shapes us. If I theoretically went back in time to relive a certain event I experienced rn, I’d internalize that differently and I’d come out different from that then I am now. So nah I’m good, but thanks for asking!
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I’m of the opinion that life happens and that shapes us. If I theoretically went back in time to relive a certain event I experienced rn, I’d internalize that differently and I’d come out different from that then I am now. So nah I’m good, but thanks for asking!
#askjayniejam
January 19, 2026 at 3:05 AM
Respectfully, no??
I’m of the opinion that life happens and that shapes us. If I theoretically went back in time to relive a certain event I experienced rn, I’d internalize that differently and I’d come out different from that then I am now. So nah I’m good, but thanks for asking!
#askjayniejam
I’m of the opinion that life happens and that shapes us. If I theoretically went back in time to relive a certain event I experienced rn, I’d internalize that differently and I’d come out different from that then I am now. So nah I’m good, but thanks for asking!
#askjayniejam
I’d love to say lust, but besides being a horny individual, I’m not really ‘lustful’ by definition?
The real answer is kinda lowkey pride. I’m proud of who I am and, despite being a somewhat quiet person, I’m not letting anyone take that from me
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The real answer is kinda lowkey pride. I’m proud of who I am and, despite being a somewhat quiet person, I’m not letting anyone take that from me
#askjayniejam
January 19, 2026 at 3:01 AM
I’d love to say lust, but besides being a horny individual, I’m not really ‘lustful’ by definition?
The real answer is kinda lowkey pride. I’m proud of who I am and, despite being a somewhat quiet person, I’m not letting anyone take that from me
#askjayniejam
The real answer is kinda lowkey pride. I’m proud of who I am and, despite being a somewhat quiet person, I’m not letting anyone take that from me
#askjayniejam
There’s not much I dislike w frens, tho I’m not a big fan of keeping track of money spent between ppl
Lemme just pay for a meal and you can get the other, or better yet, we each pay on our own! No need to keep a tally of what I/you owe the other, that’s just a recipe for nothing good
#askjayniejam
Lemme just pay for a meal and you can get the other, or better yet, we each pay on our own! No need to keep a tally of what I/you owe the other, that’s just a recipe for nothing good
#askjayniejam
January 19, 2026 at 2:52 AM
There’s not much I dislike w frens, tho I’m not a big fan of keeping track of money spent between ppl
Lemme just pay for a meal and you can get the other, or better yet, we each pay on our own! No need to keep a tally of what I/you owe the other, that’s just a recipe for nothing good
#askjayniejam
Lemme just pay for a meal and you can get the other, or better yet, we each pay on our own! No need to keep a tally of what I/you owe the other, that’s just a recipe for nothing good
#askjayniejam
Lowkey burn it (after allegedly writing down the dumbasses in charge of my country rn)
I kinda don’t think a real person deserves being ended by someone else. That being said, politicians aren’t real people, so-
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I kinda don’t think a real person deserves being ended by someone else. That being said, politicians aren’t real people, so-
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January 19, 2026 at 2:43 AM
Lowkey burn it (after allegedly writing down the dumbasses in charge of my country rn)
I kinda don’t think a real person deserves being ended by someone else. That being said, politicians aren’t real people, so-
#askjayniejam
I kinda don’t think a real person deserves being ended by someone else. That being said, politicians aren’t real people, so-
#askjayniejam
I don’t have many ocs, but the obv one is to immediately feel the jam ears just to know what the consistency is
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January 19, 2026 at 2:39 AM
I don’t have many ocs, but the obv one is to immediately feel the jam ears just to know what the consistency is
#askjayniejam
#askjayniejam
I have very obnoxiously blue eyes! Attached is a self portrait for reference!
If I had a choice tho and like anime nonsense colors were an option, I’d probably go with a shade of purple or smth. I haven’t thought of this much tho bc I do essentially have the irl anime color eyes rip😅
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If I had a choice tho and like anime nonsense colors were an option, I’d probably go with a shade of purple or smth. I haven’t thought of this much tho bc I do essentially have the irl anime color eyes rip😅
#askjayniejam
December 13, 2025 at 8:25 PM
I have very obnoxiously blue eyes! Attached is a self portrait for reference!
If I had a choice tho and like anime nonsense colors were an option, I’d probably go with a shade of purple or smth. I haven’t thought of this much tho bc I do essentially have the irl anime color eyes rip😅
#askjayniejam
If I had a choice tho and like anime nonsense colors were an option, I’d probably go with a shade of purple or smth. I haven’t thought of this much tho bc I do essentially have the irl anime color eyes rip😅
#askjayniejam