Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity. A listener inspired this episode with the following questions: What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder? Are some men meant to be in chastity? What are your favorite chastity devices? Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play: A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection. Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control. Using the nub for sissy training. Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful. Why would someone want to be in chastity? Submission to the woman that is your keyholder. Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off. Refocusing attention on what’s important. Using chastity for sissy training: Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink! Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus. Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life. 2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/chastity-interview-with-mature-metal--46710125 And https://www.spreaker.com/episode/how-do-i-get-my-vanilla-wife-to-put-me-in-chastity-meet-mrs-mature-metal--56320110 JOIN the conversation! Our adult social networking site: https://enchantrixempire.joincommunity.net/home https://discord.com/: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex?  Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM. Topics include: What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play? How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM? Who gets to define it? What are some of the items used in rough kink? Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play? How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink? How do you communicate with your partner? The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes. What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM? How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries? What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play? BDSM terms: SSC: safe, sane and consensual RACK: risk-aware consensual kink PRICK:  personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink. AndThe 4 C’s:  caring, communication consent and caution. The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress. Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast! Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ https://discord.com/:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones. Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun? Are sex dreams only for horny young men? Who stars in the sex dreams for women versus men? What do most people wear to bed? Is there a link between job satisfaction and sex? The sex facts research is really the springboard for your hosts to talk, laugh and tell stories.  You’ll also hear something we think will change the way you think of the word happiness. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”  That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive.  Today’s episode includes: General definitions with BDSM Power exchange: The Domme is in charge and the submissive obeys her. Corporal punishment by a Dominant Woman Impact play as part of BDSM culture Various kinds of pain used as a way to correct misbehavior by a submissive. Different styles of domination for a submissive male versus someone who is feminized and submissive either as a sissy or a sub. A Femdom Mistress uses discipline to change, enhance, correct, or motivate behaviors that she wants from the sub. There are various ways to discipline a wayward subby: Physical: put in a stress position, bondage, impact play, etc. Mental: verbal humiliation, degrading tasks, embarrassing activities. Tasks and assignments used to enhance the control of the Domme. A Mistress could also take a fun activity away from the sub - for example, making a sissy slut stare at but not suck a dildo, or not allowing the sub to contact Mistress for a set amount of time. Remember, as we talk about anything with BDSM, kink, feminization, or sissy training …These definitions are guideposts, as long as the people involved are on the same page and communicating, we can create pretty much anything! Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Email: mailto:[email protected] mailto:[email protected] https://discord.com/: LDWOlivia LDWErika

Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck. This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about: Blow Jobs How to make cum taste good Reaction of women to sucking cock Snowballing and cum eating Sharing erotic fantasies with your partner Intimacy and great sex Sexual wellness Aging and keeping sex juicy and exciting Normalizing the conversation around all aspects of sex Being open minded about different kinds of erotic pleasure Swingers lifestyle Taking viagra for phone sex sessions Sex work and sex workers Luxury lingerie and why it's so fun to dress up. Finally, we have a conversation about women and power. Could either or both of these ladies want to be a Femdom? We talk about myths and misconceptions about BDSM as well as the relaxation and release for the submissive. FILTHY MILFS podcast is available on all podcast platforms, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and maybe even Linkedin. Here’s the link to https://open.spotify.com/show/7dkPyPi2qAOO7fo8o402nb Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ [email protected] Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ [email protected] DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss. In this episode you’ll hear: The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose. Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny? How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play? Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play. The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!). If you’re interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch! mailto:[email protected] mailto:[email protected] DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Our adult social networking site:  https://enchantrixempire.joincommunity.net/