I like hanging out with my folks too, but wow... Enmeshment
November 9, 2025 at 6:48 PM
I like hanging out with my folks too, but wow... Enmeshment
family enmeshment = childhood neglect = disabilities = my parents almost giving me a gd stroke
November 9, 2025 at 10:43 PM
family enmeshment = childhood neglect = disabilities = my parents almost giving me a gd stroke
November 7, 2025 at 3:56 AM
The co-victimization enmeshment from genocide beneficiary in-groups is so annoyingly obvious.
November 7, 2025 at 2:44 AM
The co-victimization enmeshment from genocide beneficiary in-groups is so annoyingly obvious.
“She‘ll hold you down—> can’t get by by burning out” His mother’s enmeshment, and the despair when it’s inescapable, detailed.
So, the references to his infancy and lack of development are emotional metaphors, not physical descriptors.
So, the references to his infancy and lack of development are emotional metaphors, not physical descriptors.
November 2, 2025 at 3:39 PM
“She‘ll hold you down—> can’t get by by burning out” His mother’s enmeshment, and the despair when it’s inescapable, detailed.
So, the references to his infancy and lack of development are emotional metaphors, not physical descriptors.
So, the references to his infancy and lack of development are emotional metaphors, not physical descriptors.
Someone who really wants a relationship with someone wouldn't keep the other party perpetually dependent. In other scenarios that's considered toxic enmeshment.
Constantly forcing BIPOC to be a subject for "charity" is an extractive relationship.
If the most common denominator with genocide appears to be that mass death happens whenever rich ppl champion "charity", "paternalism" and reduce human beings to property for capital. Then my answer is I'm gonna resist by dismantling property paradigms and property based relationships.
October 29, 2025 at 1:51 AM
Someone who really wants a relationship with someone wouldn't keep the other party perpetually dependent. In other scenarios that's considered toxic enmeshment.
Reagan started it all. The HF had a version of P2025 for Reagan who adopted over 60% of it in his first year and liked it so much he had it bound and given to his Cabinet. Reagan started the unconstitutional enmeshment of the GOP with the church. MAGA wouldn't exist without Reagan.
October 27, 2025 at 2:16 PM
Reagan started it all. The HF had a version of P2025 for Reagan who adopted over 60% of it in his first year and liked it so much he had it bound and given to his Cabinet. Reagan started the unconstitutional enmeshment of the GOP with the church. MAGA wouldn't exist without Reagan.
Part of the inconsistency is whose pov it is. Dean was bred to byle the good little soldier. He also took the brunt of all the abuse so Sam didn't get it. Though Sam was still abused in his own way. Dean is loyal and has both parentification and enmeshment so he can't fully see John's abuse.
October 27, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Part of the inconsistency is whose pov it is. Dean was bred to byle the good little soldier. He also took the brunt of all the abuse so Sam didn't get it. Though Sam was still abused in his own way. Dean is loyal and has both parentification and enmeshment so he can't fully see John's abuse.
… to the extent of sexually abusing and dehumanizing children in order to apply an extreme, mass form of enmeshment upon them. Nothing democratic takes place in this household. Communication doesn't take place.
October 25, 2025 at 1:27 AM
… to the extent of sexually abusing and dehumanizing children in order to apply an extreme, mass form of enmeshment upon them. Nothing democratic takes place in this household. Communication doesn't take place.
I got obsessed with this insanely twisted story of southern family dynasty, narcissistic enmeshment & affluenza when the documentaries came out and the miniseries is really excellent so far!!
October 21, 2025 at 9:51 PM
I got obsessed with this insanely twisted story of southern family dynasty, narcissistic enmeshment & affluenza when the documentaries came out and the miniseries is really excellent so far!!
Surveillance capitalism, For profit incarceration, Enmeshment of religion and government, Unregulated corporatism, Workers rights violations, Political corruption and cronyism, Systemic fraud. It’s all here. Anyone who ignores this is a neo-nazi sympathizer. Remove their power.
October 16, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Surveillance capitalism, For profit incarceration, Enmeshment of religion and government, Unregulated corporatism, Workers rights violations, Political corruption and cronyism, Systemic fraud. It’s all here. Anyone who ignores this is a neo-nazi sympathizer. Remove their power.
my brianna wu story is she yelled at me for coddling and enabling addiction because i said 12-step is not the only or best treatment for everyone and its enmeshment with the criminal justice system does real harm
October 16, 2025 at 5:15 AM
my brianna wu story is she yelled at me for coddling and enabling addiction because i said 12-step is not the only or best treatment for everyone and its enmeshment with the criminal justice system does real harm
At best we’ll see a similar version. Anti Blackness and the enmeshment of media and philanthropy . With no DEI standards or design autopsy of Twitter is what killed this project.
It will kill most other ones too
It will kill most other ones too
If bluesky implodes from Jay's crashout I want to once again pitch a site wide migration to gaiaonline lmao
October 5, 2025 at 8:38 PM
At best we’ll see a similar version. Anti Blackness and the enmeshment of media and philanthropy . With no DEI standards or design autopsy of Twitter is what killed this project.
It will kill most other ones too
It will kill most other ones too
everyone is a combination mirror-touch synesthesia, stockholm syndrome, enmeshment, and delusional parasitosis to someone
October 4, 2025 at 2:43 AM
everyone is a combination mirror-touch synesthesia, stockholm syndrome, enmeshment, and delusional parasitosis to someone
Thing is, and much as I don’t like to admit it, Patel’s not wrong here. Previous Dem & GOP administrations’ enmeshment with the ADL was never appropriate.
October 1, 2025 at 9:32 PM
Thing is, and much as I don’t like to admit it, Patel’s not wrong here. Previous Dem & GOP administrations’ enmeshment with the ADL was never appropriate.
Bringing back class consciousness is gonna mean getting more harsh with boundaries and combatting parasocial enmeshment.
October 1, 2025 at 11:03 PM
Bringing back class consciousness is gonna mean getting more harsh with boundaries and combatting parasocial enmeshment.
And forcing ppl into morally injury to manipulate is another forced enmeshment tactic.
Alot of the "free speech" framings is literally just a hologram to influence the public to negotiate their own feelings with potential moral injury. Forced inclusion to political favored in groups is a buffer and Salve.
Liberal ppl have an aversion to "moral injury" because it hurts ego. While far right extremist have an aversion to moral injury when they're feeling deprivation sensitivity or extinction burst to in-group belonging.
October 1, 2025 at 11:19 PM
And forcing ppl into morally injury to manipulate is another forced enmeshment tactic.
This is the criticism I want to practice.
You can consider this a mission statement, of sorts.
You can consider this a mission statement, of sorts.
October 2, 2025 at 12:41 AM
This is the criticism I want to practice.
You can consider this a mission statement, of sorts.
You can consider this a mission statement, of sorts.
Ppl framing shit in social darwinism terms. "WE/YOU need to adapt!/pull yourselves by your bootstraps!"
More enmeshment and primering ppl to tolerate needless suffering for no rational reason.
More enmeshment and primering ppl to tolerate needless suffering for no rational reason.
October 1, 2025 at 10:19 PM
Ppl framing shit in social darwinism terms. "WE/YOU need to adapt!/pull yourselves by your bootstraps!"
More enmeshment and primering ppl to tolerate needless suffering for no rational reason.
More enmeshment and primering ppl to tolerate needless suffering for no rational reason.
One of my fave things about working at a library is being able to flip through books to decide if I want to check it out. Saw this interesting book on boundaries and flipping to this page and looking up the author a bit made me want to give it a read
![Text from book [set boundaries, find peace: a guide to reclaiming yourself]
Enmeshment Does Not Make You a Good Friend
In high school, I was given the book The Value in the Valley, by
Iyanla Vanzant. In her chapter titled "The Valley of O.P.P. (Other
People's Problems)," Vanzant notes:
We are not indebted to anyone in this life. We are accountable
to some, responsible for others. We are never, however,
obligated to take the weight of another's life on our shoulders.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:bc4qvcy5synxopa7l6pdjiff/bafkreigmov7dm53os3fuoncaq2rk67c3klqm5p5x6xucvfjk5ymhucc5uy@jpeg)
![Text from book [set boundaries, find peace: a guide to reclaiming yourself]
For years, I, too, believed that being a *good friend" meant dealing
with my friends' problems as if they were my own. It's important to
realize that your friends' issues are not your issues. Overly entangling
yourself in other people's problems is not an indicator of how much
you love them. Instead, it shows your lack of healthy boundaries.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:bc4qvcy5synxopa7l6pdjiff/bafkreiarhm5kqinjpuwpb4sknqxkurqqujoypxfzpcfttfkwhkekcxapom@jpeg)
October 1, 2025 at 12:15 AM
One of my fave things about working at a library is being able to flip through books to decide if I want to check it out. Saw this interesting book on boundaries and flipping to this page and looking up the author a bit made me want to give it a read
So I have weird, idk, able bodied guilt about this! Aye, you’re all hot and lovely and make my heart quicken but you’re not him, you’ll never be him, what about him!? Which is a lot! I’m working on it! It’s feels like enmeshment and that shit ain’t healthy pals *audience claps*
September 28, 2025 at 7:36 PM
So I have weird, idk, able bodied guilt about this! Aye, you’re all hot and lovely and make my heart quicken but you’re not him, you’ll never be him, what about him!? Which is a lot! I’m working on it! It’s feels like enmeshment and that shit ain’t healthy pals *audience claps*
The enmeshment of Church and State.
Speaker Mike Johnson lives in a D.C. house at the center of a pastor’s secretive influence campaign
Mike Johnson has been staying at the home of Steve Berger, an evangelical pastor who attacked the separation of church and state as “a delusional lie
tennesseelookout.com/2025/02/28/s...
Mike Johnson has been staying at the home of Steve Berger, an evangelical pastor who attacked the separation of church and state as “a delusional lie
tennesseelookout.com/2025/02/28/s...
Speaker Mike Johnson lives in a D.C. house at the center of a pastor’s secretive influence campaign • Tennessee Lookout
U.S. House Speaker Mike Johnson is living in a Washington, DC townhouse with Steve Berger, former pastor of Franklin's Grace Chapel.
tennesseelookout.com
September 28, 2025 at 2:46 AM
The enmeshment of Church and State.
I haven't seen a wheel of discourse on kink yet going around, so I'm starting one. These kinks belong in the fandom.
My hardcore kinks:
Emotional availability, vulnerability, permanence, loving family dynamics, a sense of belonging, marital bliss..
Oh, enmeshment and codependency.
Guh 🥴💦🥵🔥
My hardcore kinks:
Emotional availability, vulnerability, permanence, loving family dynamics, a sense of belonging, marital bliss..
Oh, enmeshment and codependency.
Guh 🥴💦🥵🔥
September 24, 2025 at 12:48 AM
I haven't seen a wheel of discourse on kink yet going around, so I'm starting one. These kinks belong in the fandom.
My hardcore kinks:
Emotional availability, vulnerability, permanence, loving family dynamics, a sense of belonging, marital bliss..
Oh, enmeshment and codependency.
Guh 🥴💦🥵🔥
My hardcore kinks:
Emotional availability, vulnerability, permanence, loving family dynamics, a sense of belonging, marital bliss..
Oh, enmeshment and codependency.
Guh 🥴💦🥵🔥
