#self-tie
"Do I have a preference for tying men or women?"
I have no preference for gender, but I require that those I tie with be moral, self-aware, & not push hard limits of either party.
More should know that ethics & virtue supersede gender when scening with others both for your safety and their own.
October 18, 2025 at 3:58 PM Everybody can reply
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7. Self(tie) portrait

#kinktober #inktober #inktober2025 #art
October 17, 2025 at 10:31 AM Everybody can reply
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I think I want to learn to self tie maybe. I was thinking about it bc I had a pretty bad experience with shibari before where my ex gf watched a 2min youtube video and tried to tie me up with yellow prickly hardware store rope 😀 so maybe I could learn to do it on myself to possibly overcome my fear?
October 17, 2025 at 11:02 PM Everybody can reply
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😂 Why does Donny hate this TIME cover so much? Maybe because the internet already picked the real cover star 🐔💨 no spray tan, no soft lighting, just pure “cluck and bluster” energy. Honestly… spot the difference 👀

#BlueCrew #TruthMatters #Resist #TrumpTantrum
October 15, 2025 at 6:03 AM Everybody can reply
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Please tell me all the reasons I don’t want or need this dress.
October 16, 2025 at 8:40 PM Everybody can reply
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Did a very fun self tie this last weekend and can’t wait for warmer weather to do more ties out in the sun ☀️

#shibari #rope #rigger #selftie #selfsuspension
October 13, 2025 at 9:41 AM Everybody can reply
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Note to self practice tying a tie. Muddled through it in a parking lot for the kids costume and almost asked a stranger digging through his trunk to help. It still doesn’t look right 🤣👔
Tech & show week for my kid which means a very lonely week for me between the back and forth. It’s a bit grueling for the kid but I have a ton of alone time. Pick up from school daily, kid gets her costume on in the car, eats in the car and rehearses every day till 8. Shows start Thursday. 🎭
October 13, 2025 at 11:25 PM Everybody can reply
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Rejection hurts, because we often tie our sense of self to our ideas.

When those ideas are dismissed, it can feel like we are dismissed.
But rejection is the default.

Rejection is about learning, what to change & what to keep.

4/
October 14, 2025 at 8:52 AM Everybody can reply
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And you should really not tie your self-worth to something as far out of your control as income! It’s setting yourself up for disaster if lose your job, and imo it’s really insulting to people who earn less money but are just as valuable as human beings and members of society.
October 15, 2025 at 3:03 PM Everybody can reply
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As ranking Dem and former chair of the House Armed Services Committee, he usually stays in his lane because you save your powder for the defense fights.

When he lays it out like this, we should listen /2
October 17, 2025 at 1:39 PM Everybody can reply
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It’s the 150th anniversary of the birth of Aleister Crowley, the man who – among *many* other things – once put an acrostic in an “apparently innocuous book of devotional verse” which spelt out ‘The Virgin Mary I desire but arseholes set my prick on fire’ www.weiserantiquarian.com/pages/books/...
October 12, 2025 at 1:50 PM Everybody can reply
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Day 7: Self (tie) portrait #kinktober
October 11, 2025 at 4:22 AM Everybody can reply
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Maybe! You could always self-tie or start with like…decorative ties before going into something more intense.
October 14, 2025 at 3:40 AM Everybody can reply
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"What doesn’t deserve celebration is the self-appointed messiah in the cheap red tie taking credit for it. Because this painstaking, tenuous, long-negotiated deal is not about Donald Trump."
October 14, 2025 at 12:12 PM Everybody can reply
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I think that could tie into how there was a period where my self-confidence (and esteem, if we're keeping it honest) was so low that all I relied to get by socially was assimilation. If a group of people on a site were known for being funny(funny twitter), I'd lean on that just to be noticed by them
October 15, 2025 at 7:12 AM Everybody can reply
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#WIPSnips #WritingCommunity

cw// dubious consent kiss

Aubergine has a curse. Whenever he holds a knife, it's like he becomes a different person. He loses control and would kill even his best friend.

They want to test something out. He asks Grilled to tie one hand, give the other a knife, and kiss
October 13, 2025 at 8:20 AM Everybody can reply
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Thank you for the artshare!

My name is Lyzebel, I am a self taught artist who draws mainly mine and others people's OCs!

Commissions: vgen.co/LyzebelRutle...
Other socials: lyzebelrutledge.carrd.co
October 20, 2025 at 4:35 PM Everybody can reply
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I was told by my ex even a few years ago that it was not a good atmosphere to be coming out.

It wasn't a choice, like wearing a bow tie. I'm me, I must live my life as my true self. I was afraid but I drove forward, as I had turned back too often and that hurt more.

I am out, free, me. Happiness.
October 11, 2025 at 12:22 PM Everybody can reply
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Todays remedy for the Saturn Venus opposition is staying practical and common sense. Preparations and self development pays off now. Tie off loose ends.
October 11, 2025 at 3:22 PM Everybody can reply
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UUU Untrained, Unprofessional, Unidentified - Unrestrained

Trump's GOP gestapo ICE goons and thugs let loose to terrify the American people and zip tie children...you know the self proclaimed candidate for the Nobel Peace prize..

What he did not get it ??? Hmmm
October 10, 2025 at 11:42 PM Everybody can reply
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A 2018 version of me when I used to play dress up and imagine myself as a print model on a regular basis.

#tbt
October 9, 2025 at 11:30 AM Everybody can reply
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Sometimes a self tie is one of the only things that can really get me out of my head and back into my body

Rope and Shibari is something that truly gets in the moment, I think of it as my meditation

Nothing else matters other than the feeling of rope on my skin

#shibari #rope #rigger #femdom
October 10, 2025 at 2:23 AM Everybody can reply
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Im kinda proud of my self in how quickly I’ve improved in sculpting, (3d sculpting is scary). I’m doing this frog with a job, and he’s coming along pretty well, need to do the eyelids and tie still. ( drawing is kinda dookie cus I rushed it) #ceramics
October 9, 2025 at 10:47 PM Everybody can reply
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In 1857, Thomas Howland became Providence, RI's first Black elected official.

Later that year, he decided to emigrate to Liberia with his wife & daughter after the Dred Scott case denied Black people protections of U.S. citizenship. He was denied a passport.

Thomas Howland, 1856
John Blanchard
October 9, 2025 at 6:32 PM Everybody can reply
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