DuskyArtz
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At first it might take you a whole day the next time it might take you 4 hours in the next time it might take you an hour the goal is to try to shorten the duration that you stay in the negative emotions each time you try this. And with that I wish you all the best luck.
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Playing a video game or watching a show put all your focus and every time you cycle back tell yourself no and go back to doing your task. In that environment the negative emotions cannot stay eventually you will overpower them. It takes practice it takes dedication it takes time.
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Whenever you feel this way it's important to sit with the feeling let that inner child scream for a little bit it needs to. Then when it starts to cycle back on itself tell it that's enough you've had your stage go on and do something else and do it with intention even if it's just+
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Whatever you need to do to get yourself back to a place where you're okay. But know this you're human and everybody knows that and that's fine. What I will say as a way of offering a little bit of advice is this and it comes from someone who very much knows what you're talking about+
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You're not embarrassing yourself hun we all go that way I go really low myself and every few days I have to pull myself back out of the pit. The thing is you are right to try to seek a better solution. Emotional intelligence is the measure of how we cope with our emotions.
duskyartz.bsky.social
I did. I married you. Now if you've been a bad influence I can't do anything about that. Wolfy see wolfy do *innocent grin*
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Number 2: who in your favorite character in the games?
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Take all the space and time you need hun. It takes time, work, and tears to gain some form of traction and that can be hard. Give yourself the right to take space and come back with fresh eyes*hugs*
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Thank God this isn't taking place in Montana or I would have to sternly question this man's true intentions. >.>
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That Horse is happy
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THE BEST OF
THE OUTBURSTS
OF EVERETT TRUE 1907
duskyartz.bsky.social
ROFLMAO. Dr.Pepper = candied-carbonic-prune- extract in hydrostatic distinction with laboratory infused coloration. You know, because your worth it XD
duskyartz.bsky.social
Unfamiliar with the correct pronunciation, but if I heard it, I could probably master it XDDD
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NO OOOooooooo not them Dum! We must protec at all cost!
duskyartz.bsky.social
LOL That's about how far most get with it, yeah XDD
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You protec this bean and do not cast it into the fires of Mt. Doom! This perfect bean could carry my one ring safely any day!
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There are different kinds of depression. This one is the selfish-poor me-pity-party kind, and that's the worst because it will end in people moving away from you, making your fear of being alone a self-made reality. You need to stop that train right now.
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Do this as many times as you must. Also? Think before you speak: "is what I am going to say helpful or does it put others in the awkward position of being obligated tou clean up my own mess?" The way you stop thinking about poor you is that you focus on others and less on yourself.
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You are chosing to go into that pit and live there. Sit with the feelings rather than seeking anyone who will pull you out. Acknowledge the feelings. Then choose to go do something else. When you do something else, do it with intent. Every time you start to spin, say no.
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A therapist can help you identify problem areas in your thinking and create coping mechanisms, but you, ultimately, have to do the work to make them work for you. What I'm saying is, your self loathing, it's a choice, man. No one else is doin it to you and it's not just "happening to you"+
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"Venting" is something we are told is "healthy" by unhealthy people. Healthy people know that they are responsible for their own self. We all have emotions. Emotional intelligence is the measure of how well we cope with those emotions and with how we outwardly present.+
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LOL yes. I was. I have an MA in k-12 with a specialty in ESOL and Linguistics. Even though I don't use it now, I still find it fascinating. Our history is encoded in our language. XD
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In actuality, it's "Warsh-Chester-Shire" The "sh" on the "Ch" is what throws, but that's due to language compaction. The trick is to treat the syllables as separate words almost rather than trying to ram them together. Most other words in English don't operate that way so it throws people XD
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Do the best you can going forward that's all anybody can ever expect of you. I know that's harsh but I say it with love and kindness. I really hope that you start developing coping mechanisms that will help you to get yourself out of the pit you're in. You can do that. I had to do that too.
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Forcing everybody else to watch it happen in slow motion is frankly selfish and not a good thing to expect of your friends and mutuals. You exist right now in every second you spent wallowing is a second of your life you've wasted. Get up out of the hole your end dust yourself off and