Aaron Balick 🍉
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Leading voice on how tech & culture shape the psyche. Psychotherapist | Consultant | Psych writer at GQ | Keynote speaker | Author of The Psychodynamics of Social Networking | aaronbalick.com
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We thrill in horror at their feistiness. They were loud, hungry, reckless and free, except for the hundreds of millions they left behind.”

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They were big and brave, superb scholars and scientists, musicians, actors and athletes, and they were idiots who were throwing it all away, even as their high culture lamented or roared in pain.

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Such liberty and abandon, such fearful defi-ance. They were brilliant in their avarice, quarrelsome beyond imagining, ready to die for bad and good ideas alike. As science extended its domain, religious belief and conspiracy theories swelled.

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Then, of course, hardly worth repeating, they watched amazed as the decades sped by and the Derangement gathered pace, the weapons proliferated and they did little, even as they knew what was coming and What was needed.

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But they also spelled out the human genome, invented the internet, made a start on AI and placed a beautiful golden telescope a million miles out in space.

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“What brilliant invention and bone-headed greed. What music, what tasteless art, what wild breaks and sense of humour: people flying 2,000 miles for a one-week holiday; buildings that touched the cloud base; razing ancient forests to make paper to wipe their back-sides.

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Imagine it’s 100 years in the future and your a scholar of English Lit. 1990 - 2030 (before the degradation and inundation). This is how you’d imagine us, from the mind of the wonderful Ian McEwan in “What We Can Know”:

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If you read this as my implying thar RFK and Trump have an inferiority complex, I won’t argue.

Psychologically, the capacity to tolerate uncertainty is a developmental achievement. Overconfidence is a tell-tale sign of compensating for feelings of inadequacy.

www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/why-...
Why the world needs more imposter syndrome, not less
Feel inadequate or out of your depth? Believe or not, it's usually a good sign. Meanwhile people incapable of doubting themselves are wreaking havoc in the world
www.gq-magazine.co.uk
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“I’ve trained scores of therapists only to find that the self-doubting ones worry me a lot less than those that are overly certain.”
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A great article 👏🏻
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Motivation to do great work that happens to result in a Nobel Prize trumps wanting a Nobel Prize to demonstrate to yourself and the world that you’re actually a good person.
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Motivation to do great work that happens to result in a Nobel Prize trumps wanting a Nobel Prize to demonstrate to yourself and the world that you’re actually a good person.
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Watts is hardly a purist - he mixes up Taoism, Buddhism, Advaita - so I agree it’s not precise. But he has a knack of bringing you to the core of a concept - however agglomerated that concept.
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Thank you for you commentary!
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Probably the best, and certainly the most useful, description of the Buddhist concept of emptiness a non-scholar could ever ask for. As ever, by Alan Watts:

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All of a sudden it will strike you that this nothingness is the most potent, magical, basic, and reliable thing you ever thought of, and that the reason you can't form the slightest idea of it is that it's yourself. But not the self you thought you were.”

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Indeed, you seem to be rather firmly and certainly grounded in nothingness, much as your sight seems to emerge from that total blankness behind your eyes. The weird feeling goes with the fact that you are being introduced to a new common sense, a new logic of void and form.

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